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Madison, 26
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Hi friends welcome or welcome back to my Channel I'm ASO this is Aso tarot and in Today's reading we are going to be Looking at where is your connection Headed with your person we haven't done This reading in a long time and I saw Some of you guys requesting it and I was Like that sounds fun let's do that so Here's what we are going to be looking At today we have a lot to get into what We're going to do is we're going to Start by looking at what your current Energy and intentions are towards the Connection and then we're going to look At what your person's energy and Intentions are towards the connection It's my intention that you are on the Left and your person is on the right you May find that the energies are Flip-flopped if you need to flip-flop Them that's absolutely okay but just Know that I'm going to be reading you From this side and uh I intend you to be On this side and then based on those Energies and intentions we're going to Look at how that's creating where your Connection is headed and what energies The connection is going to be Experiencing based on these energies Then we're going to move into the tarot And we're going to look at how these Connecting energies are actually going To materialize so when we're in the Energy check the connecting energies are
Going to be more Broad and vague and We're going to use the tarot to clarify How those energies are actually going to Show up in your Material World then We're going to look at something that Your person wants to experience with you Um this could be literally anything I Was trying to find a good a good word to Like Encompass just literally anything Your person wants to happen between the Two of you um and then we're going to Look at how you can create more Closeness SL intimacy with your person Um so I think that'll be interesting and Then to finish off my charm people this One is for you uh we are going to be Using charms to get both signs and Guidance so the charms that I pull are Going to serve as your guidance for the Reading and they are also going to serve As signs that may be related to your um Connection with them or signs for Confirmation that this is your reading Now if it resonates it's your reading But if you need extra confirmation Hopefully that's helpful now if you are Having so much fun which hopefully you Are and you would like to extend the Reading there is going to be an extended On Vimeo link down below where we're Going to do a Shameless Deep dive into Your person's feelings for you and I'm Really excited so what we're going to be Doing is we're going to look at what
They're thinking about you right now What they're feeling about you right now And by right now now is when now is for You not me so when I say Timeless I mean Like whenever you are accessing the Reading whenever you are watching it That's when now is we're also going to Be looking at what about you is special To them like you know what what makes You unique what what aspects of you are Just really important to them we're also Going to be looking at how they would Describe you to a trusted Confidant I Felt like those words were really Important CU if we just asked like how They would describe you to friends or Family they may not like necessarily be Honest I don't know about you guys but I'm not telling my fam everything I love Them but you know what I mean I I I want To know what they're what how they would Honestly describe you to someone that They they trust so with those four Questions we're also going to use my Channeled messages Mega deck to clarify Them so I'm really excited to do that And then we're going to move into more Channel messages this is a channel Message heavy extended and I just love Channel messages so you can never have Too many um and then we're going to see What they would say to you if they could Just like bear their soul and be complet Complely honest and then we're going to
Finish off with card-based guidance for You about the connection moving forward So if you're interested definitely check That out I love filming the extendeds Like we have so much fun over there I'm Way more chaotic uh I spill the tea Sometimes I spill the tea about my life While I spill your tea like if you think If you think I'm chaotic Here you got to go the extended we have Fun over there so shout out to everyone Who comes to the extended thank you guys So much um but yeah I'm just grateful You're here don't feel like you have to But it's there and it's it's an Excellent way to support me and also Just more content but with that being Said we have four different squishy Balls for you to choose from now I hope You love squishy balls as much as I Do and uh of course we're going to be Mature adults about this just kidding so Um I do just like want to mention uh These squishy balls have like terrifying Faces on them um as if squishy balls Were terrifying already just kidding um So just to warn you I I know some of you Are like going to want to see them so I'm going to show them while while I'm Describing the what decks we're using But um yeah warning uh the faces are Kind of disturbing which is why I didn't Uh show them so with that being said Starting with the first group we are
Going to be using the okay tarot and I Have this uh Pink squishy ball this is The least disturbing of them truthfully Um and then for group number two we are Going to be using the mid Centurion Tarot and I have this yellow squishy Ball on top this is me when I'm burping During your Reading and then for pile number three We are going to be using The Sleepwalkers tarot and I have this green Squishy ball on top he looks like me When I'm like holding in a fart in Public mood and then for pile four we Are going to be using the modern witch Tarot and we have this blue squish ball On top I feel like he's offended that I Called his face scary but it kind of is So with that being said now we're going To get into our make a wish mini reading Portion for my intro Squad shout out to My intro Squad I love you guys um and in Case you guys didn't know my newest Candle in my tarot candle line has come Out and it is the empress I am literally Obsessed with this candle so much I Can't wait for you guys to see it and in Case you guys are unaware um my candle Line is through Angelic magic 888 site And you can get any candles on her site Including my tarot candles or any other Candles and you can get them for 10% off Using Code ASO 10 now with my tarot Candles every single candle comes with a
Unique tarot card inside So based on What card is in here is that is going to Determine what our mini reading is and Then we will so I will open this and we Can admire how pretty it is Ah oh my gosh okay so our mini card is The two of cups I want to hold off on This and make a wish first and I just Wanted to note in case you were curious The crystals inside are green Adventuring and rose quartz and I Believe the scent is gardinia and Rose I Will have to double check with that um But I know it's Rose and like another Flower I'm pretty sure it's gardinia but If you want to take the time now to Pause and just focus and set intention Of whatever you want to wish for feel Free to do that I'm just going to take a Little moment to kind of set the Intention for my Wish may yours mine and all of our Wishes come True thank you for being here thank you For Existing thank you for letting me read For you look at look at that flame That's a strong wish baby that's a Strong wish we got going on okay the two Of cups um I think that this is really Cool to have come out in a where is this Connection headed reading especially Because for a lot of you I feel like This is a good sign that a connection
Could be headed towards a Closer romantic Union Um but I feel like this is so much more Than that with this two of cups I feel like this is a beautiful time for Connection and especially one-on-one Connection um if you've met anyone Recently like this could be a very Positive sign that this is a very Mutually aligned connection but I'm Feeling a specif a message specifically That anyone like business like there Could be something for some of you where You may be considering going into Business with someone else that seems Very aligned with like your with your Vision and your intentions it seems like That's a positive Venture that may work Very well for you for some of you if You're worried about someone that's Getting into a new relationship I feel Like this two of cups is a sign that um They're compatible for each other and to Maybe like loosen the rein on how Worried you are about them but I also Think with this two of Cups this is an Encouragement for you to get to continue Being open to the loving connections Around you and continue to stay open in Trust because you're headed into deeper Levels of connection and I just think That this is so beautiful with this two Of Cups like I definitely think that Just to have this come out on a where is
This connection headed reading like I Feel like for a lot of you your Connections are headed well we'll see in The readings but it seems like Relationships in general are headed to a Much closer place but I also see this as A sign too to pay attention to the Relationships where you don't feel like You're met halfway where you feel like They're one-sided or where you feel like You have to put in a lot of effort and Energy to maintain the relationship Because I feel like spirit is really Saying here that you know those Connections are the ones that you want To kind Of be cognizant of how much uh you Invest in them because that time and Energy you're investing could be spent With someone who not only meets you Halfway but sees You in a loving kind authentic way who Sees you as an equal who cherishes and Values you the thing that I love about The two of cups is it's just like Genuine in communion and camaraderie and Like love like it doesn't have to be Romantic love it can be platonic love it Can be any sort of love but this is this Is two people meeting each other and And having like beautiful Synergy and And coming together as one and I just Think that this is a beautiful sign for This reading and a beautiful sign that
If if you want a deeper relationship Whether you're already in one or you are Wanting to head to one that that is Happening and that is not only possible That that is meant to happen and to Continue affirming that and just believe In your worth and believe in the fact That you know you are worthy and Deserving of good and healthy Relationships and you are worthy and Deserving of having those joyful Relationships and being with someone who Who can understand you and who who does Respect and love and and cherish and Admire you the same way that you can Them and just the biggest the biggest Thing that I'm hearing is just don't Settle please don't settle Well obviously you're not settling Because you're watching me but you know What I mean so with that being said we Are going to go ahead now and get into The reading so feel free to pause the Video if you need to decide which pile You feel most drawn to as usual all of The piles will be linked down below as Well as the links to the extended if you Are interested in that thank you guys so Much for being here thank you guys so Much for watching and thank you guys so Much for existing I know I kind of I Kind of took a little break I really Needed it so thank you guys for being Patient with me I've been working on
Lots of healing working on lots of Growing and honestly uh making up for Maybe some neglect of myself that I have Done in order to work very hard and I Don't want to be a hypocrite and neglect Myself so I needed to go away for a Little bit and just kind of relax and Decompress and really focus on my own Stuff so that I can show up and be here For you and be my best self for you so Thank you guys so much for understanding Thank you guys so much for being here I Cannot wait to get into your readings And yeah go ahead find your pile and I Will see you in your reading hi there Pile one welcome to your reading and Thank you so much for being here if you Guys chose the okay tarot which we are Going to use after the energy check and The pink squishy ball then this is going To be your reading on where is your Connection headed with your person thank You so much for being here in case I Forgot to say that I just get so Distracted by squishy Balls I'm going to have a lot of fun With that anyway um I'm going to put That there but knowing me can't help but Just want to play with squishy balls While I Read we're going to start by looking at Your energy and intentions towards the Connection your person's energy and Intentions and how that is leading to
Where the connection is headed so Starting with you you'll be on the left We have the three of Pentacles and we have Escape in terms of your person's energy And intention towards you in the Connection we have The Two of Wands we also have Amulet and then these two cards Represent the connecting energies Between the two of you and for that we Have Universal Heart and we have transformation Metamorphosis synchronicity the Unexpected I'm so grateful you're here I Just I just like got this overwhelming Like Rush of gratitude um as I was Laying these cards down thank you for Being here thank you for existing and I I can't help but wonder if maybe your Person feels that way too this is a Really interesting situation and I know I always say like things are interesting But it's cuz they are many things can be Interesting uh but maybe I could use an Osaurus Anyway your energy is showing up in one Where it seems like you're trying to Stand out to this person person um and Don't worry you do you really don't need To um I would not be shocked if this is A connection where both of you desire Change Um I am seeing a scene from The
Cinematic classic Ice Cube movie Are We There Yet um talking about there's this Scene well they talk about the friend Zone a lot in that movie and so I wonder If uh the friend zone if if things are In the friend zone right now and maybe That's something you're both trying to Get out of the fact that we have Escape Here and the three of Pentacles I wonder Too if you feel like you've been Building a really solid rapport with Your person you feel like you've been Building the connection and the Relationship but you're ready to kind of Escape from the status quo of what has Been happening between the two of you Which I would not be shocked if it's a Situation where you guys are you know Friends maybe wanting to be something More or or um you know maybe if you're Already in a relationship with this Person you're in a situation where you Know the Sparks have kind of died down a Little bit and they've kind of that You're kind of just experiencing a bit Of a lull in the connection and maybe You're feeling like you guys are more Colleagues than than Partners or than um Lovers and so you're trying to rebuild That no matter what I definitely feel Like there is this emphasis on you Especially wanting to invest and devote More time specifically to your person And get out of like group oriented
Things with this person so if you Typically hang out with them in like a Group setting I would not be shocked if You're really Desiring to kind of get Out of that situation but I also feel Like there's a a pragmatism to your Intentions where you're like yes I do Want things to shift here but I'm also Grateful for this person so you know if They're not comfortable with that they Don't want that then you know I I'm okay With that but I got to get out of what Things have been like where things have Been here whereas your Person they're Desiring you they're Making plans they're they're scheming With this amulet card being here I don't Know if you gave them something or if You made them something or said Something to them that was very powerful But they've been kind of holding on to It as a source of comfort and and maybe You yourself are the amulet but if You've been feeling intuitively like Your person's cooking something up I Think you're right I don't know if they Have decided what that is yet but I Think especially for a situation where You are you and your person are just Friends right now I feel like your Person is wanting to take things to the Next level and kind of Express their Desire to be more than friends and see Where things go like the Two of Wands
Card to me especially is is very much Like dating card and and a a desire to Explore a desire to see where things Could head here's what's really cool Though no matter what your situation so Let's say for example you are in a Relationship with this person already And you kind of fall into that second Scenario of things being just kind of in A l and like and like it's not like Things are dire it's just you want to be More connected to each other and you Feel that disconnection and you don't Feel those those Sparks of passion that You know That you maybe would like to and I think The beautiful thing here is is that you Both are Creating a mutual situation where you Are headed towards infinite possibility Of what you want this connection to be The fact that we have transformation Here in Universal heart this is a sign For unlimited potential the universal Heart especially talks about like Limitless possibilities and being Connected with the greater Spirit of the Universe being in tune with like You know the true nature of what's Important and I think that there is oh I I just got this image of like you Obviously I don't know what you and your Person look like but I just got the Image of like someone looking at another
Person and just there's just this Knowing and I just felt that was like You and your person where like you know You're able to send unspoken messages to Each other and I wouldn't be shocked if For a lot of you you're like in the same Environment though this could be like um An online situation maybe maybe you're Making those eyes over Zoom I don't know But I would not be shocked if you both Are like coralled in the same Environment whether it be through work Or something else and you both kind of Have these moments where you like look At each other and you're just like can You believe this like Bill's going on The rant about you know not leaving your Food in the refrigerator again and it's Like Bill you leave your food in there More than anyone it's like you know you Got like you don't have to say that cuz You guys look each other and you're just Like Bill like again man like I don't Know why bill's coming through but uh You know it's just kind of like you guys Have this unspoken code and the secret Code and I think that there is this fear Here of maybe overstepping boundaries And overstepping or um the other person Not being on the same Wavelength I think if Anything your person has a stronger Desire for things to change than you do And if you're like well I really want
Things to shift I really want things to Change well then congratulations buddy Like both of you really want things to Change and I think that the biggest Thing that's happening here is the both Of you have to have the courage to make The choice to say Hey I want to I want to take things to The next level or or hey things in our Relationship have been kind of Lackluster like I I want to connect with You I want to spend more time with you Whatever that may be You guys have the ability to transform This connection and I feel like in your Case especially one big message coming Through is to not let Um outside uh outside parties third Parties if you will uh tell You which is kind of ironic cuz I am a Third party telling you things but um I'm removed from the situation in a way That these these folks aren't um be Careful who you say what to I don't know If everyone in your circle is uh maybe Has there has your best intentions at Heart um in fact I wouldn't be shocked If there's someone that's almost like Competing in in your in your circle That's competing for this person that's A very specific message so you'll know If that's for you or not um if that Doesn't sound right that's not your Message and that's not for you that's
For someone Else but more than anything the vibe Here is is that your intentions are to Build something more substantial with Your person and escape the status quo With them whereas your person's Intentions are to implement whatever Plans they've been envisioning and they Really do want to tell you about them I Feel like they also want to bring more Security to the situation if your person Has been kind of withheld about Like um what's been going on between the Two of you or withheld about like you Know their perspective and their Intentions um I wouldn't be shocked if In the near future like they kind of Open up about that or they they find Ways to be more reassuring in um ways That they haven't been in the past I Feel like with the universal heart and Transformation though like this Connection is is undergoing a much Needed shift and that shift very much Depends on your relationship status with Them and um where you both want things To shift to so more than anything this Seems to be going in a very positive Direction and I don't really see the Need To yap on and on so we're going to go Ahead now and get into your tarot but While I'm Shuffling I did quickly want To mention that if you're enjoying this
And you want to dive more deeply um I am Doing an extended for this reading and In the extended we're going to be Looking at your person's current Thoughts and feelings for you just kind Of doing like a deep dive into their Energy for you and just kind of Shamelessly indulging in in that so if You want to join me and join me for all That chaos that will be linked down Below but if you know I'm just happy You're here and if you want to support Me in any way just leaving a little like SK or a comment or a little subscribble Just letting me know what you liked or What you enjoy that helps me so much Thank you for being Here and unlike this deck you are more Than okay you are amazing so we're going To start by looking at how these Connecting energies so the universal Heart and transformation Uh might materialize So Spirit how might these connecting Energies materialize in terms of where This connection is headed okay the moon Came out right on its side and I feel Called to like pull a clarifier for Thato okay So that's one there's another one so What's what's another Potential Six of Swords okay beautiful ah Okay I want to say on the back of the
Deck we have the star so like no matter What beautiful things are coming but two Different examples of how this could Materialize is number one I do think a Big thing is that a lot of uncertainty Around the connection is going to be Fading where this connection is headed Is a place where both of you Are connecting and communicating about What it is that I have to stop myself there is one Potential of how this could go Ary and It can only go Ary if you do this so I I'm speaking to you my lovely viewer um If you allow your fears to get the best Of you and your ego to get in the way You could very well sabotage this Situation by pushing this person away so One thing I do want to warn you about is Jumping to conclusions and making Unnecessary uh assumptions could lead To a dissolution of this connection if You don't want that I would highly Recommend you look at what parts of you Get especially triggered by this Person's Behavior especially if it's Like you want them to show up in a Certain way and you haven't said Anything um or you haven't told them That but you're just like expecting that I I would really ask yourself like are My expectations fair or am I jumping to Conclusions is this real or is this true I feel like um you could cause yourself
To go into things closed off if you Allow your fears to get the best of you But if that's something that you've been Struggling with then I see that this Connection is headed to a place where Your fears will not be getting the best Of you in the way that they have been But more than anything it seems like There are healing conversations that are Going to happen and literal movement Forward maybe for some of you like one Example that I'm seeing is that you Might choose to like leave a job or Leave a situation in order to pursue to This connection and that might be very Aligned with you for others I see the Six of Swords as really just in general Forward movement movement away from Stagnancy movement away from what was And also movement away From confusion especially between the Two of you I feel like I feel like more Than Anything the biggest inhibitor between The two of you connecting is confusion Around um what's happening and and fear Of communicating what you're actually Thinking and feeling I definitely think a part of you that May be really struggling right now in This connection is allowing the past the Pain of the past and like the stories You've told yourself about that to like Kind of get in the way of your ability
To just be open and see what could Happen it's like you're you're Prematurely guarding yourself for Something for a monster that doesn't Exist um and you might very well be Creating a monster out of your own fears And out of your own assumptions so I be Really careful about that the fact that I burped as I said that uh definitely Means that there's some negativity to Release around your worth and around Like your belie like I feel like there's A part of you that doesn't believe that That someone could truly like for those Of you that are already in this Relationship like stick it out and for Those of you that you know want Something more with this person truly Believe that that you could be worth it And you are worth it and it breaks my Heart to think that you're not and this Is this is the Insidious nature of the Ego I mean and the ego is not truly Insidious the ego is just trying to keep Us safe right but the ego can Create situations that wouldn't have Been there in the first place from our Own fears and so it's like yeah you Could very well create the rejection That you're terrified of by pushing this Person away and and jumping to Conclusions but if you stay centered and Stay in your heart and stay open you'll Find that no matter how things shift may
Be different from your expectations but It it is certainly nothing that your Fears or telling you and and you'll Realize like wow those things that were Dictating my behavior those beliefs they Were not even rooted in reality and I'm Glad those are gone but yeah with the Six of Swords as well I definitely feel Like this connection is moving forward And it's Moving it really depends on where you Steer the ship and if you rest on your Laurels and wait for this person to take Action then where this connection is Headed is based on where this person Wants to steer the ship I think the Biggest thing is is that if you want the Connection to head in a certain place Get an idea of where you want that is to Is and and get an idea of that And be willing to share that be willing To open up about that and be willing to Say that um okay so now I want to see Something that your person hopes to Experience with You so what is something that pile one's Person hopes to experience with them the Seven of Pentacles interesting okay they Really want a slow build to this Connection they really want to take Things slow and steady and they really Want to um appreciate you and take their Time but with the seven of Pentacles as Well I feel like they may be saving up
For something that something special That they want to do with you um the Hard thing with this deck specifically Is that there's not a whole lot of Visual to go off Of and I feel like your person is really In this position too where for some of You the situation could be so new that They're not even really sure what they Want to experience with you but they do Just they know that they want to Experience more with you and that they Want to invest more with you and they Want to see where things go they also Though just want to spend more time Alone with you and like really get to Know you on a more personal level and Away from the influences of others That's a big thing is like the Influences of others seem to be a big Uh factor that seems to kind of create Division between the two of you whether It's because like you usually only Connect in certain environments where There other people where there are other People and you haven't like taken that Step to be like hey let's hang out Outside of work or hey let's let's go Just do something you and me and like Maybe that's that's the fear maybe that The fear is like Oh Um they're not they only seem see me as A friend or blah blah blah blah but your
Person really wants to spend more time With you and spend a long time with you Like they they want To really like soak in your essence like Not in a like creepy way but in it just Like they want to understand you more They want to be around you more and they Really just want to see like who is pile One and what's what's underneath the Person that I've gotten to know And what are they truly Like if you are you know already in a Relationship with this person I think One thing that they want to experience With you is a regrouping of some kind Where you guys really just hash it out And talk and be like hey so like what's Going on here where are things really Headed and and and Why why are they like this like how can We get closer like how can we make Things stronger how can we make things More substantial there's really just This energy of building but also this Patience with it like I definitely think Your person is the type of person to not Want to rush things and also is is They're very like slow and steady wins The race which I actually think is a Really good Vibe uh but now I want to see how you Can create more closeness and intimacy With them which I think will be really Helpful so Spirit how can pile one
Create more close cless and intimacy With their Person Really really okay well it did land it Did land face down so let's see if Spirit has a point to This how can pyong create more intimacy With their person Please seven of Wands okay then that Makes actually a lot of sense you've got To break through the pragmatism and Break through the The formal barriers that are there like You guys have created a bit of a dynamic Between the two of you that I think both Of you are afraid afraid to rupture out Of fear of what might happen and spirit Is saying you you can't move forward if The both of you are Like unwilling to budge from where You've been if that makes sense with the Seven of Wands here in order to create More intimacy between the two of you you Have to fight off the influences that Are p holding you back I also think Though that there needs to be a little Bit of Courage here and the courage to Be like hey you know I want to dive a Little bit more deeply into this I want To I want to you know get to know you Outside of work seems to be a big like Theme here um but also with this three Of Pentacles I think that they're on Your end like I feel like you're being
Encouraged to ask more questions I feel Like I don't mean to be hard on you pile One but one thing that spirit is Bringing up to me is That often times you assume a door is Closed before you've even knocked and I Think that you may Rob yourself of a lot Of opportunities and honestly this is Such a mood because I think I do this Too and I probably need to hear this as Much as you do Um you may push away opportunities for Intimacy and connection because you Assume the other person doesn't want it And what you may find is is that the Other person is doing the same thing and You guys are both kind of just emulating That Spider-Man meme where the two Spider-Mans are just pointing at each Other and so I think the way to create More intimacy and closeness is by you Know breaking through those barriers and Having the courage to say hey let's go Get a drink or hey you know I really Want to hang out with you in this Setting or hey things in our Relationship are not working like if we Can't if we're having trouble getting Closer like maybe we should look at Going to Coupes counseling maybe we Should do something to just change the Status quo like and maybe for some of You it just comes down to like yeah we Have been attending to the details of
Life so much we've forgotten to really Just cherish and embrace each other so Whatever it may be there needs to be a Willingness and a and a courage to break Through the resistance you feel Of you know Knocking on that door and seeing if It'll be open because worst case Scenario it just stays closed but I Don't think that's going to happen I Think more than Anything there's really an energy here And it's interesting cuz there's not a Whole lot of Emotion represented in these cards but There is in my experience of just Feeling this and I think that's because Probably both of you have a bit of a Fear of tapping into your deeper tions And sharing them but I think that's Exactly what you both need to realize Where you truly want this connection to Head and I guess to summarize before we Get into signs and guidance where this Connection is headed is is Transformation and literally anywhere You want it to go it can go if You steer the [ __ ] ship there just Steer the [ __ ] ship okay if the if The both of you Okay this is okay this is this okay this Is your relationship sh okay both of you Are like sitting here on a ship steaming Full Full Speed Ahead and both of you
Were like Oh I don't I don't know I don't know What port I want to go to what if they Don't like that Port um what if I steer The ship and like they think it looks Dumb or like what what if what if what If they're not impressed by my nautical Abilities and and the other person's Doing the same thing and in that process The the ship is going to crash so Somebody's got to take hold of the ship And somebody's got to start [ __ ] Steering it I don't care who it is Spirit doesn't care who it is and if Your ego cares who it is you need to Tell your ego to sit down because both Of you are afraid and your egos are Causing a situation that doesn't need to Exist and I know I'm getting a little Bit passionate but I feel very Passionately about someone steering the Goddamn ship steer it or tell them to I Don't care just one of you I'm Invested uh but yeah the the ship Analogy aside to say that this can go Wherever you want it to go if you set The intentions and will it and you know Actually Communicate so with that being said We're going to go ahead and get your Charms now and get my hair out of the Bowl and see uh what signs and what Guidance the charms have for you so
Warning this might be a little bit loud A you of headphones you might want to Turn that down um but I'm going to close My eyes now uh and get this hair out of My f we'll do this So so that you know when you try to Like man that hair is not wanting to go Away okay um Spirit tile one what signs and guidance Are relevant to pile one and their Connection with their person Okay Yeehaw all Right where do I want to start all right I want to start with the bird cage yeah This I always take it as like an eight Of Swords charm Although I also think that you Know I know I just heard like I know why The Cage Bird Sings and we also have When words fail music speaks so if You're having trouble coming up with What you want to say maybe find music That matches that Vibe and I'm not Saying plagiarized but at the very least You know take inspiration from the Artist and and you know what are they Saying what what are the lyrics you know What lyrics speak to you and how can you Make that your own and how can you share It and maybe if you can at all you Know send send the song itself and be Like this is how I'm feeling you know Not everyone is skilled at sharing their
Voice through words and that's okay but With this Uh this card here both of you are being Trapped by your mind a little bit but I Think you especially Um I definitely think that there are Things that your person Has assumed are a lack of interest on Your part that really are actually just Fear-based like like things that you may Have done cuz you've been like oh they They might think I'm weird or they may Not like me or whatever like they they May have actually taken as like oh They're not that interested or Oh you guys are mirroring the same Energies back to each other I guess is Is what I would say but yeah with this With this little guy uh spirit is really Saying like the only prisons that exist Are the ones that are in your mind we Also have this dog here so maybe you or Your person has a dog maybe a black dog Specifically um a labrador maybe I don't Know uh but also dogs are a sign of Loyalty to me and I really do feel like There is a loyalty between the two of You like an kind of an unspoken One and I also think that you know there Is a sweetness to both of you that I Think you're both kind of like jumping To conclusions based on like past people And based on past experience that aren't Really there um but also if you are
Already in a relationship with this Person I feel like this is a reminder Like that there is loyalty between the Two of you and not let you know the Fears of implosion like stop you and Like you know cuz it will implode if you Don't do anything about it like if Things are meant to implode they're Going to implode no matter what but it's Better to at the very least get to the Heart of it and I think the thing is is That things aren't going to implode Things are going to get a lot better It's like you know how like Massaging a wound like or massaging a Wound why would you massage a wound like Massaging like a a really sore muscle Like it hurts before it feels good like It's like ripping a Band-Aid off you Know you just kind of got to do it but It feels so much better after you do it But let's see what else we have but Guitar picks also could be significant Or you know maybe someone has a pet bird Uh let's see we also have never stopped With the barcode so I definitely think Uh this is an encouragement for you to Never stop like giving up on what you Want never stop like giving up on your Dreams um there this pen is a bit Dystopian with it being like a barcode And stuff like that but I do think that This never stop is really like Encouraging you to remember that
Like a lot of the limitations that you Have are just Perceptions in your mind And and Also I feel like this is a reminder that When you give you receive and maybe you Know your person is also kind of waiting For you to give And I don't know what the situation is But what I do know is is that Everything's going to be Okay oh and I think maybe one important Thing is is that if you haven't stopped To just sit and and think about what's Important to you and what you want and Where you want the ship to head then Maybe you should like you know this Never stop if you have that mentality of Like I'll rest when I'm dead or or I'll I'll reflect when I'm older like You know you can take a little break if You want and just like kind of reflect On on what is truly important to you now We have the star here which was on the Back of the decut that I already Mentioned and we have the shooting star Charm and so this is huge encouragement For you to continue having hope having Faith in this situation and also having Faith in in your own abilities to bring About what you want Aquarius energy Could be very significant here we also Have um with the star card Here this beautiful energy of like Healing between the two of you like I
Feel like where you are headed with this Person is is a place of healing and What's really challenging is I've had Such a hard time tapping into like the Energies of this reading because I think Both of you are very focused on what's Happening materially like what did they Say to you last when was your last Interaction how did they looked at you Kind of funny the last time you talked What if you said something weird and It's like that stuff is not important What's truly important is where you want Things to go and and speaking from your Heart I also think with the three of Cups Here if you don't want to be in the Friend Zone if you don't want things to just be Friendly ask yourself how you're Reinforcing that behavior like if you're Always inviting them out but it's only Like with other people or something like That like that could be something that's Getting in the way but I also think too I'm hearing don't worry be happy in my Head and I think that there is like an Encouragement of just you know you've Already got this three energy here why Don't you use it to have some fun Instead of building something you know I Think that there is this encouragement Here like I think that that in terms of Where you're headed like Signs and
Guidance three of Cups the star like Joyful celebration with this person um And healing together I think it's very Beautiful oh no I really hope that the Minor nudity I feel like it's so small Like they're not going to be able to There are she doesn't even have nipples So like I'll just turn it over just in Case but the star was there Um Anyway definitely shooting stars could Be Significant Uh stars in general I'm also hearing Sparks Fly by Taylor Swift shout out to The swifties we also have the Aries Charm with courageous which of course as An Aries myself I am so guilty of Telling people to just do do it and and Just like you know channel that Aries Energy and fight for what you want uh so Someone could be an Aries person Aries Season we are in Aries season so that Could be significant when you're Watching this Aries season could be Significant but I think all of you Everyone could could use a little bit of Aries energy and uh you know have the Courage to to go after what you want and And be like you know what [ __ ] this is My life I'm here and I want to go on a Date with you like I want to go to this Port with you or I want to steer this Ship to a port of love and happiness and
Healing and you will just do it I feel Like you're over complicating a Situation that it really is not that Complicated at all and with the gumball Machine I always see this as like Abundant Blessings but Also trusting that you don't need to Know how things will look in order to Know that they'll be great like you know You're getting a gumball you may not be Able to choose what color it is or Anything like that but the gumball is a Gumball and I think in this case like Wherever you and your person are headed Like maybe maybe you've had this Specific narrative in your head of like How you wanted things to go like like oh You know they'll invite me out and then We'll have this like great night or like Or if you're in a relationship with them Already like you know oh like they'll be The ones to to to bring things up and Say hey like I feel it's drifting apart Like whatever whatever it is is I feel Like you both have been waiting on the Other to do something or you've been Waiting for the universe to orchestrate Things in the way you've envisioned them And I think the universe is saying don't Stop it just do it like stop expecting And trying to control how you want Things to go and instead just go for it And earnestly it doesn't have to be Perfect it just has to be authentic and
That's a lesson that I even I have been Trying to integrate because it's taken Me three weeks to sit down and film a Video because Well I've needed a lot of rest but you Know I also think that with this ring Setting nothing is set in stone between You and this person right now So that is Both something that should bring you Relief but also maybe a little bit of Like nerves in the sense that like Nothing is guaranteed in life but I do Think that like this Connection and the desire of what you Want for it like nothing is set in stone So what you want to happen here you can Make happen you just have to be Committed to doing that and committed to Trusting that you know you may not be Able to control the circumstances of how Things unfold but that they will be Perfectly imperfect and that's Perfect we also have an apple so apples Could be significant maybe you and your Person use different Tech and one of you Is an Apple user and gets crap from the Non-apple user for for using Apple Products or vice versa uh this apple Could also be Temptations you know maybe if you feel Like It I feel like your Apple is the Temptation to shut down withdraw and
Push people away with peace and love um And that temptation is one that you're Going to have to push through in order To create more connection and closeness But I promise you it's so worth it and You will realize like oh wow you know my My inner kerin like doesn't have to get In the way of my ability to connect with Other people we also have the Narwhal But it's a narwhal with with books so Narwhals could be significant I also Just think in general like you know Obviously people talk about how unicorns Aren't like aren't Real they're real in my heart but like Narwhals are real like they they are a Real horned Animal that's that's an interesting Phrase to use I'm a real horned Animal one could say I also Am oh I missed you guys uh anyway I I Kind of see this narwall is like this Beautiful reminder that like things that Seem too good to be true are real and The things that you read about in books Can be real like I feel like this is a Beautiful sign that like your fantasies Can be realities they may not look how You envision them and yeah you know Maybe the sun doesn't shine as brightly Or you know maybe things are really Windy I I think one of the the aspects Of material reality that we often forget Is just that
Like material is messy and like material Is chaotic and like yeah you want to Have a Beautiful Picnic Day and the wind wind Is blowing like crazy and the dress that You decided to wear is giving you a full Maryn moment but you know that's the Stuff that brings you closer together I I think about my friend's wedding you Know where she meticulously planned Things to be absolutely perfect and even Then you know tons of things happened That you couldn't anticipate or expect But the day was still perfect and Beautiful and she was beautiful and Everything was beautiful and I and I Think that is the thing is it's like you Know sometimes we get hung up on these Meticulous little details that are Unnecessary and unimportant and that Actually detract from you know the Greater purpose of being there you know Is it really that important that you Have the right flowers on your wedding Or is it more important that you get Married like you know pay attention to Your priorities and also just pay Attention to where maybe you're riding Off the potential for something that Really could be there that you believe Can't be because you're afraid or Uncertain we also have far away and I Feel like this especially since it came Out face down I feel like
You're o I'm hearing I am by I K-Pop Group shout out to the K-pop Stands um but there you know there's one Of the few lyrics I can understand is is Um they say I'm on my way and I think What what you've been fantasizing about Is like is like the answers are far away Or that like who you need to be or or The person that you need to be like you Need to get there when in reality you Already are that person you're already Good enough and like your dreams are not In a far away place or in a book they're Right in front of your face they're They're they're in your heart and They're right in front of you and just Because things might not be you know the Way you envision them they're still you And I think one of the hardest parts About growth and transformation is Realizing that you know the person that You want to be is still you it's not Some fictionalized image of yourself That's completely different like the Transformed you will still be you like You know one thing about me that I Struggle with is I'm not the neatest gal In the world And when I visualize My Future Self She's super organized and put together And you know what I've kind of realized Is is that pentress perfect organization Just doesn't work for my brain and in Fact I I can be an organized person but
It's going to be organized my way and It's not and it's not going to to be how I Envision it because I'm not the type Of person that can I am a maxim IST Monster who just loves stuff and things Like hello so you know like it's Impractical for me to assume that like Yes the future me is just not going to Like want stuff it's like it's just Going to be like minimalist and Organized and like I can be organized And chaotic and I think like the reason Why I'm saying that is because you may Be envisioning yourself as like the me That has this deep love you know will be Put together and and more successful and Like and it's just like why is the Version of you now not already worthy of That that's where you need to ask Yourself and and what fantasies and what What dreams have you been quite Literally putting off because you felt Like the reality doesn't live up to it Or that you're not good enough to access It yet because that's what's keeping it Far away from you when in reality it It's meant to be right here we also have The little crab here so cancer energy Could be significant um but I also also You know see this as a reminder to not Let your hard exteriors get in the way Of connecting with your person um you Know when you feel hurt or when you feel Like slided or rejected it might be easy
To get a little crappy but maybe that Person didn't even mean that you know I Feel like especially for those of you Where you're like already in a Relationship with this person and you Like have an established connection you Know those little things can kind of Build up over time and and small things Like it's never about the thing that It's about you know you know what I mean Like you might be like oh you always Leave your socks on the floor but is it About the fact that they always leave Their socks on the floor or is it you Know that they don't actually listen to You about the fact that it matters to You like you know things like that I Feel like you're really being encouraged To ask yourself where maybe you shut Down or maybe you know you get Frustrated and and they do too and maybe Ask yourself you know what's underneath That like the fact that there's a pearl In this little crab I it reminds me like The things that you're guarding yourself From the emot you're guarding yourself From as well as like the um the things You want to do that you're afraid of Like like maybe ask someone out or Confess your feelings or or say hey Maybe we should go to counseling Together like those things might scare You but that's where the Pearls of Wisdom lie and that's and that's where
Your great greatest growth exists that Is hard to say and finally we just have This number seven and seven is a Beautiful spiritual number um the month Of July could be significant um We have the Bop Seven Things by Miley Cyrus I cannot believe it did not win a Grammy Um but yeah seven in general uh could be A significant number but those are our Charms I want to see if I'm kind of Thinking of anything else uh but I'm not So pile three that is where I'm going to Leave this reading I'm going to go take Things over to the extended now but if You're leaving me here thank you guys so So so much for watching thank you so Much for letting me read for you um Definitely let me know like I I haven't Used charms as like a guidance piece Very often so let me know if you like That don't like that charms are Very some people love them some people Hate them I don't know I'm doing my best Uh thank you guys so much for watching And for letting me read for you if you Would like to support me in other ways Like I said earlier extended uh letting My ads play in the background is super Helpful liking subscribing commenting You can also check out my candles be Sure to use code ASA 10 for 10% off you Can check out my merch you can check out My social medias which I guess I don't
Really use much but still Um but yeah I think that's all I have so Thank you guys so so so much for Watching and for letting me read for you I hope you all have a wonderful day or Night whatever it is that you're Watching this video and I hope you'll Come back and see me again soon bye hi There pile two welcome to your reading And thank you so much for being here if You guys chose the mid Centurion tarot And the yellow squishy ball which I am Going to be playing With love playing with squishy ball and This is going to be your reading on Where is this connection headed between You and your person you guys actually Got an extra card does not mean that you Are more special than the other groups You are just as special but I guess There's more information so we're going To start by looking at your energy and Intentions towards your person and the Connection you are on the left so to Start with that we have the seven of Pentacles and your intentions are Meaning and then on the right we will Have your person's energy and Intentions so for that we have the king Of Cups we also have movement and then These three cards will represent how These energies and intentions are Creating where the connection is headed
So To start we have isolation in Reverse we have Miracles and we have message from afar Okay let me make sure these are all in The Frame ooh you're in the dark pile pile Two I hope I can bring some more clarity To light but I'm really glad I saw this Through the camera because this is Symbolic the way that this is okay this Is definitely itely a spiritual group a Spiritual pile Um I was about to say you'll either Resonate with what I'm about to say or You won't Um but this is a spiritual group for Sure and I would not be shocked if uh You have been in or recognized this Connection as spiritual for some time Literally the fact that we have like the Crown chakra coming out for both of These cards um is very symbolic you both Are connected ing at your crown which is The spiritual center it is what connects Us to our Oneness to all that is to the Great Divine and your energy towards This connection is one of patience Investment and waiting the fact that we Have meaning here too I feel like you've Not only gotten a lot of Confirmation And synchronicity about um the Importance of this connection and its Role in your life but also like your
Commitment to following the flow of what This connection is trying to teach you Has brought a lot of meaning to your Life and I wouldn't be shocked if you've Benefited greatly from the healing work You've done from this connection Whatever that is um or even if you're on That path I definitely think no matter What and and this is one of the Challenging things you know about Connection spiritual connections Especially is that there can be a lot Happening on the in the subtle Realms That we can't necessarily iously Perceive or recognize and also you can Be having a very similar experience to Someone else and not even realize it Because you know you're not able to see Through their eyes and I wouldn't be Shocked if you and your person are at a Distance I mean literally you're you're Far away from each other but um we also Have message from afar and also the fact That we have these Spirit cards coming Up tells me that where this connection Is at is is like predominantly Operating in the higher Realms In God Consciousness which is beautiful Because God Consciousness the unconditionally loving Intelligence that runs within us and Throughout all things and is essentially Behind all creation and within all Creation um that is what is guiding and
Leading both of you through this Connection and I feel like for you Especially this connection has taken on A whole new meaning as you've grown and Evolved and and it's even gone beyond Maybe what you initially desired with This person you Know when we're conditioned to believe Like you know things have to happen in Certain ways and that love must look a Certain way um and you know what's Interesting as I said the word love I Felt like this shifting in my heart and Maybe that's something you've had a hard Time understanding is like how can I Love this person when we haven't been in A traditional relationship or how can I Like accept that love this person even Though it doesn't make sense and and That's the thing is like love just is It's the very fabric of our universe and It's it's made up of it's it's Everything it it is you Know Divine Consciousness Divine Intelligence and and that love is Guiding both of you and I think that's Beautiful for you I can tell that you Love your person you and you love Yourself enough to honor your own Feelings and that's a beautiful thing And so I can see here that your energy And intentions have been to hold the Line and do what you need to do focus on What what's important but also to not
Give up on what has meaning to you which Is this connection and you know the Other the other things you're pursuing In your life I definitely actually Wouldn't be shocked if maybe you were Even feeling a little bit bad about Clicking on this video like it was Almost indulgent of you to do so or that If you're focusing on it then you're Somehow messing something up and you're Not messing anything Up in fact I I think this message came To you at a very important time because You need to know that what you're doing Is not only working but the more faith You have in yourself and you have in Your own spiritual process and the more Patience and trust that you have the More this is going to continue to flow And the faster you're going to notice These shifts because you're less focused On them and you're you're doing the Movement necessary to make things happen I can definitely see that you have been A bit focused on the material but you Know one thing I I want to mention as Well is Like there have been so many times where You could have written this off as as Just being in your head or or something Like that and I feel like you're finally Starting to come to terms with the fact That like the material is not Disconnected from the spiritual and
That the things that won't leave you the Things that that feel truest to your Heart they're there for a reason and I Think that you have a level of Investment and patience and commit Towards this connection or seeing where It leads um and and that's showing up Here and I just I think that's beautiful And and I and I'm sure you don't hear This very often in your everyday life But I just want you to know like how Incredible that is to hold on to that Commitment and hold on to what has Meaning for you despite being in the Dark about what's happening why it's Happening and where things are leading To there's so much fear-based energy Around us all the time especially when It comes to love and romantic Relationships and the amount of advice Around love and romantic relationships That is just absolutely um dog [ __ ] uh I'm not saying that mine is is better But I know that no mine is better Actually mine is Better um yeah I'm I'm going to toe my Own horn mine is objectively better than You Know some some I'm not talking about Like other people's readings I'm talking About like people who talk about dating Advice that are like you shouldn't you You should wait three three days before You text otherwise you might look in
Like that [ __ ] is so [ __ ] stupid I Can't we love other readers here and we Support other Readers anyway I just wanted to make Sure that like that wasn't what you guys Were thinking I was saying cuz I would Never anyway back to the reading your Person this is really interesting see I Feel like you've definitely been in a Position where you like this connection Hasn't moved forward because your person Hasn't been very responsive I feel like Your person has probably been the one That's been a bit shut down and hard to Work with and I think that there are Good reasons for that and I think that Your person has needed that now that Being said just because you may not know What's going on with them or you may not Be interacting with them does not mean That they are not thinking about you and Does not mean that they are not Experiencing this connection because Holy [ __ ] they are um the fact that we Have the king of Cups here is so Powerful because not only is this the Most evolved emotion Card but it's one where you know their Feelings for you are based in the Deepest and most powerful form of love That is and it's unconditional and That's terrifying and I don't know if Your person consciously identifies it as Unconditional but it's certainly
Unavoidable and Unforgettable and Something that I think your person has Realized you know it's never going to go Away it's never going to disappear and In fact if your person has um created More distance between the two of you or Um deliberately like you know kind of Isolated themselves from you or if you If you've allowed them to just kind of Do their own thing and haven't really Engaged with them in any way um that has Just made their experiences all the more Intense they cannot Avoid the reality of their feelings and I think the interesting thing about this King of cups is that he's not holding The cup it's floating in front of him And so I feel like your person Knows that they have to act on these Feelings but I don't know if they've Decided what that is yet and here's What's interesting is this is why faith Is so important and why trusting your Instincts is so important because I feel Like you know that things have been Happening underneath the surface but you Don't know what and and and that happens In like all aspects of like spiritual Growth like stuff is happening you don't Know what is happening but you just have To trust and eventually you will see the Light you will see what what was trying To be shown you will integrate it and The whole thing will start again and
You'll do it again and yeah if you can Tell are you dealing with that uh you Know that that process of spiritual Growth it's hard and it's hard to be in The dark and when you're in the dark It's a lot easier to let your fears get The best of you and so I feel like I Feel very called to tell you to keep Trusting your intuition and not let fear Get in the way you are in the dark you Are not perceiving everything and I Think that's a good thing because it's Partially meant to keep you focused on What you're supposed to be working on But that doesn't mean you can't like Also know that like hey things are going Great keep going like I feel like this Is like a very important cheerleader SES For you because you're doing important Work um and I and you know what's funny Is I didn't really bother to play with The squishy ball in the last reading but I can't stop in this one like yeah sorry You don't really get to enjoy it cuz I'm Enjoying it far too much but where this Is leading to in terms of the connection Is massive shift and and going away from A state of isolation I don't like using The term separation because it's it's Not real like you guys are on the same Planet you're not separate like Everything is connected Ed even if you Were on different planets you wouldn't Be separate because like literally
Everything is connected and science has Even proved that like you can I mean I'm Probably going to explain it incorrectly But physics said that like when you Split an atom or some [ __ ] something Really tiny and you move them really far Away when you affect one the other is Affected and that's kind of like the Vibe between your connection like the Healing you do they do and I think that You can almost feel intuitively like Things have shifted but you don't know What and there's a part of you that's Like why I want to get my hopes up and It's like no actually stop thinking About hopes and and just trust in what You know to be true that there is a Greater purpose to the reason why you Know you're so connected to one another And it's not only for your benefits it's It's for the benefits of humanity we Need people in these beautiful states of Higher loving Consciousness and Expressing that and showing that to to Show other people that it's possible and It's real and it's true otherwise we're Going to continue to have people put all Their Hope and Faith in Celebrity Relationships and then scream love isn't Real when they inevitably break up like We don't need that anymore we've grown Out of That we as a society need more uh Positive representations of loving
Relationships and I think that this Could very well be one in whatever way It wants to show up we look at that in The tarot but where this connection is Headed is I do think that you are like Your person is absolutely going to Be making some sort of gesture towards You and making moves where they are Reestablishing contact or reestablishing Connection with You now the fact that we have Miracles Here I definitely feel like this is Going to happen rapidly and in a shift And I also feel like your person is Going to be divinely inspired to do this I also think that it's very important You not get too caught up and on how and When this happens and instead stay the Course the fact that we have isolation In Reverse though I feel like both of You are going to be opening up not only To the connection more but to yourselves As well I also think I think there's Going to be a lot of intense spiritual Shifts that happen as you both step into This next phase of evolution where you Are both like Where you're both simultaneously healing Releasing growing making space and Having a lot of powerful realizations And and making connections around oh This is why I do that thing with them or Oh the way I do this mirrors how my Person does that like I feel like you're
Going to be making a lot of connections That make you realize where you've had Distortions about the other and where Maybe you have been um making Assumptions that weren't true This is beautiful Because the status quo of what's Happening between the two of you is Being turned upside down and your person Is not going to be able to stop Themselves from reaching out to you I Feel like a lot of the reason why they Stopped themselves in the first place is Because they didn't feel in control of The energy and of their experiences Around you but also oh I feel so hot Like I Um I feel like your person has a deep Fear of being embarrassed or rejected by You and with this message from afar in Miracle like where this connection is Headed is to a miraculous place and I do Think you are going to be hearing from Your person or you're going to be Getting continuously getting messages That lead you right back to one another I mean what this could be is anything But where this connection is headed is Is much closer together than than you Were before and I think that you will Understand why this time apart has been So necessary for your own growth and You're going to realize like oh thank God like we had that time because
Like it wouldn't have worked out or we Wouldn't have been able to connect the Way that we Do we wouldn't have been able to Understand each other this wouldn't have Been able to happen or or I wouldn't Have experienced this or you'll Understand why everything happens the Way it does and you will be able to have A little bit more faith trust but let's Go ahead and see how these energies are Going to materialize because this is the Beautiful thing and this is what I love About Like energy and and material is that you Know energies can be the same but how They're expressed in the material can be Very Different an excellent example of that Is you know often Times if I don't get to a reading topic That I want to do um someone else I'll I'll see someone else do it within the Next few days and then I'm just like wow Like we're connected to the same source And like it does not matter like Spirit's going to get that message out It doesn't matter who it has to be Through but like also like wow we're Connected to the same Source that's so Cool it's like and that's the thing is That you have to remember you and your Person are connected to the same Source Like you may feel and think like you're
Completely alone in this but you're not You both have been alone in this in Terms of grappling and handling this Together But that's changing and I feel like your Person is having really powerful shifts And also I feel like they're just Maturing in ways where they feel like They're actually capable of handling the Energies in a way that they didn't feel Before the fact that we have the king of Cups here your person is a lot more Confident in who they've become and in What they're capable of doing uh than They were in the past I feel like they Didn't have the wisdom in the past to Handle um things with you with Grace and Care and and I think it's very important To them that they do so and with this Movement here it's interesting how one Of the animals is like crying into the Other's eyes and and I feel like your Person has had to do a lot of emotional Processing and I also think that their Intentions towards you are to move Towards you and and to start exploring And understanding these deep feelings Because they know that they can't Quit them but also I just kind of Realized too like this could clearly be You know a situation where maybe you Guys are taking a break and you have Deep feelings for one another and and You're just you're tired of that and
You're ready to change one thing I do Want to mention is that we have a lot of Letter M's here movement message Miracles meaning so um the letter M Could be significant I am a little bit Biased as a Madison myself but I do I do Like the letter M Anyway while I'm Shuffling I do just Want to thank you guys for being here And thank you guys for all your support And patience and love um you guys are The best and man I just I I feel so good When I'm able to sit down and and and Read for you guys and I'm just I'm just So grateful for you and I'm so grateful For your existence and I'm sure your Person is Too so with that being Said let's start looking at how these Connecting energies might materialize at Least What Spirit Will Reveal because Like these are very big energies but Spirit's also not going to reveal a lot Because one how they materialize may be Different and two it's like ruining it's Like telling someone about a surprise Party which we like kind of are but but Not really it's like we're just letting You know something you know is coming is Coming we're just not telling you Powerwind Anyway well we're going to try so Spirit How might these connecting energies
Materialize in pile to's life Please I knew it spirit's like you are Not getting a word a word like this is Not a typical tarot card this is a Unique Card specific to this deck I had To use this deck in in order to get this Card you are not meant to know and you Are not going to know and spirit really Said that's cute you thought you could Try Madison but they're not meant to Know and I'm like okay I guess they're Not meant to know so how these will Materialize in your life you are not Meant to know but they will and you just Got to trust and keep being patient and I know that you are I know that that's Frustrating but Honestly it'll be more fun with you not Knowing and also too if you're expecting It I feel like that could shift the Energy in a way that's unnecessary it's More like you need to know that it's Coming because of all the hard work not Because of all well partially because of All the hard work you've been doing your Person's been doing a lot of hard work It it's a lot of factors and a lot of Reasons what you don't want to do is get Get in your head about it and start Overthinking it this is yours this Connection is yours your experience of It is yours And you know like these Miracles are Yours there's no reason to stress
There's no reason to worry just flow With what is and trust you'll be fine so What is something that pile two's person Wants to experience with pile Two what is something that pil whose Person wants to Experience I told you two of Cups they Want to experience a loving relationship With you like how clear could that be And look it's like they're literally Like they're like I'm going to have to Go I'm going to have to get up out of my Seat and go get that Cup cuz my baby's over here like you're Their baby like I know not everyone is Into like cute pet names like that but I Think your person is like that's my baby Like that's like when they're talking About you and I think they know like I Think they know that and you know it's So beautiful too it's like this this Wolf he's like howling into this message From afar it's like this isolation is Being turned upside down and it's Leading to this beautiful merging Union And I feel like also you know what they Desire to experience with you is Union With you um so if you if you've never Checked out my union reading my most Recent one I'm really proud of it um you Should check that out because the more You resonate with it the more in Union You are with yourself you might find it Helpful if not no need too but
Um I will also say in the extended we're Going to be doing a deep dive into your Person's like feelings and thoughts About you right now and like energies And I really cannot wait to look at Theirs so if you want to check that out Feel free to join me but yeah what they Want to experience with you is is Genuine communion connection and and a Loving relationship with you it's that Simple like I think that they've known For a long time that that's something That they want to experience with you But they've also known that they're not In a place To be in that with their whole heart and Be in that in a way Where they can give you what you deserve You know what I mean there's definitely This energy of Like if I Can't do it right I don't want to do it At all and I think that your person has Been maturing a lot and they're like Okay I think I'm ready to face my fears And and and show up like they they Desire that closeness with you and they Desire that intimacy and they also just Desire to feel held and seen by you in a Way that you always have But actually be able to receive it and Appreciate it and give it in return you Know and I think that that's a big thing For you too I I I wonder if you've had a
Hard time receiving that sort of as well Um and maybe you've desired it and Maybe but when it comes like because It's not from the right Source or it's Not the right place like you've just had A hard time accepting it um but this is Really beautiful Like this is Literally like what morage you want they Just want closeness with you they They Want to love you and be loved by you in Return and look at how similar this Seven of Pentacles Is To the woman in the Card like literally the arm gestures are The exact same it's just so cute it's Like it's like you've already been in The position to be in this two of Cups Energy and you've just known that like Okay it's not time but that doesn't mean It won't ever be time it just means it's Not time right now I'm going to be Patient I'm going to do what I need to Do I'm going to grow I'm going to evolve And I'm going to trust and that trust is Paying off because now your person is Like Okay it's time I got to grab that cup And join my baby and trust me I don't Say pet names so the fact that they're Saying that and like being so like That's my baby that's my baby like
You're the baby baby And no amount of my own inner cringe can Stop it which I don't even think it's Cringe I think it's cute but like you Know it's just silly human things so now I want to look at how you can create More closeness and intimacy with this Person so Spirit how can pile to create More intimacy and Closeness with their person their king Of Cups Person we have the Five of Swords so This is powerful like the way that you Can create more closeness is not let Separation Consciousness stop you from Connecting and also pay attention to Your Mentality with the Five of Swords Here how you handle and deal with Conflict and disagreement is really Important but also if you are afraid of Facing conflict or facing the truth that Is going to be challenging when it comes To your connection because I do think That um You may have this instinctual urge to Like protect yourself from this person And that could be because maybe they've Hurt you in the past but I think that It's really important to recognize that People can grow and change and and if You haven't done the Forgiveness work Necessary to kind of like release the Past I think you're being encouraged to
Do forgiveness work or do whatever work On yourself necessary to be able to be a Bit more open I feel like one of the Things that may create a lack of Intimacy or create more chaos is if you Assume the others intentions or assume Like like let's say for example you know You're over here your beautiful seven of Pentacles self and you're Like my person sucks like they just Never do like they're they're just Probably screwing around and doing Whatever they want and here I am like You know working so hard and doing my Best and like and putting in so much Time and energy and love and they don't Even know it and it's like When and then without even realizing That they're doing they're working just As hard and doing what they can so that They can show up for you I feel like you Need to stop self-sabotaging in your own World like wherever you are afraid of Intimacy with Yourself that is where you need to Cultivate more of it cuz it's going to Help you with your person this is also Though about changing your mentality Around what is possible here and Changing your mentality around What is acceptable to talk about with This person you know it's not a bad Thing to ask questions it's not a bad Thing to say hey like this thing is
Still bothering me can we talk about it Or can we find time to talk about it I Feel like there is this like Self-sabotaging self-filling prophecy Energy where you almost like assume that Something can't happen or something Can't work that way and you're making it So by believing that I also just think With this Five of Swords here though you Know not shying away from being honest About how you feel because like conflict Happens like even in the most loving of Relationships and you know rather than Viewing conflict as a sign that things Aren't right view it as an opportunity To get closer because often times That's What conflict is trying to do and I Think in your case with this Person spirit is really encouraging you To not assume their intentions assume That they're out only for themselves and And to not not be in the same way you Know with this two of Cups being here Like it it hinges on the both of you Coming from your hearts and not making Assumptions about the other and about Where they're at so I think more than Anything with this Five of Swords you Know don't assume that they're out to Get you and also be willing to open up And share about your fears about your Uncertainties about where you're at Because I feel like your person you know May have a hard time just bearing like
Sharing a lot of things especially if They maybe in the past did something That they weren't proud Of but being willing to talk about it Openly or just being willing to say like Hey like can we just like talk about This that we can bury it in the past and You know leave it there like I don't Want this to Define our future and if we Leave it unresolved like that might be a Problem or whatever it may be I feel Like this is this is mutual like this is A mutual thing of not getting in an Energy where you feel like you have to Protect yourself at all costs um and Feeling like this is a win-lose Situation let go of the idea that you Can even lose in this situation and use Every Opportunity As a chance for more closeness and Finding out how to create that instead Of just going well I don't know how to Do that I don't know what to do try Something like like you really can't Mess things up here so instead of being So afraid that you might make a misstep Be more gentle on yourself and realize Like if Things I if if a connection were really That delicate that even just talking About something makes you uncertain of Whether or not the other will stick Around like that should be a sign in of
Itself how weak it is but that's not the Case here we have a very powerful Connection here and it it's not going to Be it's not going to be destroyed by a Petty conflict in fact it'll probably be Strengthened by something like that so Yeah don't let that get to you but we're Going to go ahead now and get your Charms and these charms will serve as Both guidance and signs for this Connection signs that this reading is For you so headphone users a little bit Of a warning this is kind of loud so you May want to turn the volume down my eyes Will be closed just so you know and we Will just see what wants to come out so Pile two spirit what signs and guidance Are relevant for pile Two and their Connection Okay we've got a lot I love this Okay we have the perfect match like are You kidding me like forget about it all Those charms and perfect match comes out I feel like spirit is saying you know The reason why you can't let go of this Is Because there's a spark between the two Of you what can I say you know you thr Crazy kids are meant to be together You're a perfect match and I think that Both of you know that and you know wands Are the most connected to Spirit which Both of you son of a guns are and if I
Photo if I zoom this in then you guys Aren't going to see me pointing there I Apologize but let's see okay let's see What else we have okay I don't even know Where to Start well we have the letter I so the Letter I could be significant we also Have dragonflies in that but also I Think that this is a sign of like to Encourage you to continue like your Self-love work your healing work stuff Like that um because I think that is Bringing the two of you closer together And also just making it less scary for The both of you to to do things Differently in this connection to um you Know take risks put yourself out there And just be yourself in maybe ways that You haven't in the past because you're Afraid of like looking stupid or looking Weird and it's like you can't you can't With the other but we also have two keys That's interesting so maybe both of you Have different keys to unlock or both of You are important keys in each other's Lives to understanding certain roles to Understanding certain um Experiences in your life we also have This little star here and it's a clear Star and so I feel like this is a Beautiful sign that like not only should You have hope but like the future that You're hoping for is only getting Clearer like keep investing in that keep
Trusting in that and also Fire Quartz Might be a significant Stone you want to Look into um I love fire quarts So good one to have we also have this Bushel of wheat and I always see this as Like abundance being reaped abundance Being harvested and I always see this Too as a sign that like the hard work That you've been putting in like even if You don't see it as hard work or you Don't realize that you've been doing it Like it will come to harvest and like All of the work that you both have been Doing individually is culminating in This you know Miracle event that's Bringing you closer together again we Also have the eight of Swords which is Very powerful because this is a sign That you need to get out of your head And that your own fears are what's Keeping you trapped and if you don't Allow those to keep you trapped you'll Keep moving forward the eight of Swords The the nine of Swords is where like Things are so bad you may want to like Ask for help but the eight of Swords is Like you're fully capable of taking your Own blindfold off And And sorry I'm cracking my back um you're Fully capable of taking the blindfold Off and you know trusting your own inner Guidance and seeing where things go Remember I say this all the time anxiety
Screams intuition Whispers And it's a Lot harder to hear The Whispers of your Intuition when your brain is going Everything's going to implode and you Suck and Also you know the stuff that the brain Does um don't listen to That let's see we also have never Underestimate me and I feel like this is From your person like don't Underestimate that's part of that Five Of Swords too like I feel like you Underestimate what what your person Understands does your person love Scorpio energy with that king of Cups King of Cups talks about Scorpio energy Um and whether they do or they don't uh It does seem like your person knows a Lot more than they reveal and I think That your Person really wants to prove to you that They are you know maybe more than they Think you see them as but I also think That you underestimate them I don't know How much Faith you have in them and I Think that spirit is also o saying never Underestimate me in the power of my Gifts like love can move mountains and Spirit is powerful enough to keep both Of you on a trajectory towards one Another when everything around you has Told you that you're stupid or that You're that you're foolish or that You're weird that you're silly for
Believing in something for believing in Love and spirit's like yeah don't Underestimate me like these feelings are Powerful for a reason they're meant to Keep you on the path like they're meant To keep you growing and Evolving we also have this little dime I'm going to see what the year is we Have 2021 so 2021 could be a significant year Maybe that's when you met Um dimes could be significant maybe they Think you're a dime piece but also the Number 10 you could be significant so October who's in the who's in the Dime I don't even know who that is That's really sad at the same time Though it's not I can if if you're like You don't know who's on the dime I'm Going to pull up a map and be like can You point to me all 50 states without Help if not you don't have room to Criticize cuz I Can we all have different strengths That's my Point and that and that last thing was Only to Americans if you're outside of The country don't you even worry you Don't you don't need to know who this Man is or where all 50 states are you Don't need to do anything just continue Looking as beautiful as you are anyway Let's see we have the number one so January could be significant um this
Also just makes me think of the magician So manifesting energy is really powerful Right now and Also since a dime is 10 cents uh and 10 And numerology reduces to one you could Almost argue this is an 11 20111 could also be a significant Year uh but one is also January so the Month of January could be significant uh The first of a month could be Significant as well um let's see we also Have sleep survive wake up I feel like Spirit is really saying like you are Meant to come out of this cycle and and That's part of this awake ing process is To help you realize like you're not here To just survive you're here to thrive You're here to share your gifts you're Here to share more of who you are and You're here to share love and like you Are not here to just be in this endless Rat race of [ __ ] contrary to what Our conditioning in society tells us Unfortunately we do have to to some Degree but you know at least we can try Our best to do it on our own terms right We also have the moon card here ah And I definitely think that this is a Big sign that like this is only Scratching the surface of what's being Revealed there's a lot more to be Revealed in the future that you're Unaware of um and I'm really excited for You about that but we also have when
Words fail music speaks and so I would Definitely say pay attention to the Messages you get in music your person Might be sending you messages through Music Um or you might even find that Like music music that that you've had in Your head plays when you go out into the World or something like that like pay Attention to the music that really Resonates with your cork CU there might Be a message there we also have the Robot though and I feel like this is an Encouragement of meditation cuz it's Purple too this is really an Encouragement for you to lean even Harder into your spiritual side into you Know your spiritual awareness because That is what is one that is where you Can connect most intimately with your Person right now and that actually makes A lot of sense this Five of Swords and Your mentality will get in the way of You being able to connect with your Person cuz you they don't need to be Sitting in front of you for you to Connect with them like we're able to Connect with each other through the Screen through time and space and yes Like you're not like we are using Physical things to do that but think of How many things had to come together I Had to pick the right deck to get the Right message I had to pick the right
And was it right or wrong no but it's Perfect you know what I mean like if I Had chosen a different deck if I had Done things different way I'm sure it Still would have been what it needed to Be but like everything happens the way It does for a reason and it's perfect And Like obviously with generalizations There's nuances to them but you get what I'm saying we also have I love autumn so If your name is a them like and you're Asking about a person that could be a Huge sign of like yeah I told you your Person loves you um but this also could Be a sign that the fall is really Significant um and if you're in the Southern hemisphere and watching this When I upload it then fall is coming for You um but you probably say autumn and Not fall or a completely different term Because I don't know maybe you're Somewhere where you don't speak English Maybe English is your second language Which in that case that is metal as hell Um congrats on knowing more than one Language um we have Gemini so Gemini Energy could be significant what's on The back of it intelligent yeah I think Like Gemini is in the lovers card which I definitely think is a big sign of like Yeah like the these are lovers like the These two these two these two crazy kids God wants them to be together they're
Going to be together so help them no Manosphere podcast could keep them apart And you know I really just feel like This is a beautiful sign of like you Know you guys are on the same page more So than you realize and like to not let Your your smart brains get in the way of Things cuz I do think that could be Something that makes things more Challenging but let's go ahead and see What this last uh tarot card is it's the Three of cups I love that I definitely Think there's going to be a beautiful Reunion between the two of you and I Think it's going to come through trust And through just letting things flow I Definitely think that you're being Encouraged to like celebrate as if They're already here because they're Coming and and by celebrating like You're literally Just bringing it here but also maybe try Practicing neutrality around how they Show up whether they show up or not I Know that's hard but like it'll help I Promise um more than anything though I Feel like this reading was really meant To serve as a reminder that like you're Not doing this for nothing like you're Not crazy um no you know what actually Like it is crazy that we exist and that We are here and like it it is not Far-fetched or wild to think that You know you have a person and a special
Connection and you know that and your Person knows that and that's why you're Here and that's why I'm here to remind You of that but with that being said Pile two I'm going to go ahead and move Over to the extended now where we're Going to look at your person's current Thoughts and feelings for you we're also Going to get channel messages and get Some guidance it'll be really fun really Juicy so if you want to meet me there Please feel free to but if you are Leaving me here thank you guys so so so Much for watching and thank you so much For letting my ads play in the Background while you do something else Because that is one of the simplest and Easiest ways to support me so thank you To everyone who does that if you'd like To support me in other ways extend it Obviously comment down below let me know How it resonates you can leave this a Little like if you haven't already and Be sure To uh subscribe if you haven't you can Check out my merch you can check out my Social media and you can check out uh my Candles be sure to use code AO 10 for 10% off any candles on Angelic magic 88 Site um but you guys I think that's all I have for you so thank you guys so much For watching and for letting me read for You I hope you all have a wonderful day Or night whenever it is that you're
Watching this video and I hope you'll Come back and see me again soon bye hi There pile 3 welcome to your reading and Thank you so much for being here if you Guys chose the green squishy ball and The Sleepwalkers tarot this is going to Be your reading on where is your Connection headed with your person I'm Going to put this down cuz I will Probably play with it the entire time I Probably might any anyway but you know I'll try Okay so we're going to start by Looking at your energy and intentions Your person's energy and intentions and How those energies and intentions are Creating uh where the connection is Headed so you are going to be on the Left your person is going to be on the Right if you need to flip-flop them Please feel free to do so but it is my Intention that you are on this side so To start with your energy and intentions Towards this connection we have the two Of Swords as well as Engage and then for your person's energy And intentions we have the Queen of Swords as well as Pain and then for the connecting Energies between the two of you we have The third eye portal Vision Clairvoyance Clarity confusion and Enchantment So
Okay I had this intense urge before I Started your reading to to listen to Amy Win house um which I I did fulfill that Urge uh and I wonder if there is some Significance there I don't know if There's a specific Amy win housee song That has been really resonating with you Or just her energy or her life is like Significant in some way to you but um or Her story or just her songs in general Maybe one of you is a big fan or Something like that But the vibe that I'm getting here is is Quite Interesting and I feel like in your case I guess I'm just going to start with you And go there I don't feel like I need 50 Million disclaimers I'll just clarify as I go um it definitely seems like you Desire to interact with this person I Mean we literally have engage here but It also seems like you're kind of Avoiding them uh and I think that There's this internal struggle happening Where it's like you feel the urge to Reach out or communicate or engage with Them even if like you're in a Relationship with them like it seems Like things are not in the greatest Place right now um and it seems like Despite your desire to connect with them There is a part of you that's really Avoidant of doing that um partially Because you're overthinking but also
Partially because I feel like you are Very vulnerable To their energy And their Words and I don't say that and I I don't Say vulnerable in a way to be say like That you're weak cuz like vulnerability Isn't weakness but I mean the fact that You know your whole back is open I feel Like there is a part of you that is a Little bit afraid to face your person Cuz they're showing up as the Queen of Swords and you know there may be a fear Of you quite literally being stabbed in The back and the fact that we have the Pain card coming up here I want to be Fair to your person the one thing I will Say is is That this their energy could be this way For a lot of reasons and what I've been Told by my guidance is that you will Know why this pain exists whether it's Because they did something that hurt you And they are in pain over their behavior Whether it's you made a choice that that Hurt them even if it wasn't a person Like even if it wasn't a personal slight Against them um you know it may have Made them upset it could also be that Your person is just in pain in general And so they're not really able to show Up in a more um warm way you know They're in a very Like mentally focused space right now
They're in a bit of a cold space they're In a place where they're they're Thinking a lot they're ruminating a lot And they are in a place of kind of Defensiveness and Protectiveness and I definitely and I Think the challenge here is is because This could and and like my voice is is Cracking and breaking excuse me so I Definitely think that there is like Maybe a lot that this person wants to Say to you but they're holding back Because they they're they haven't Processed their feelings yet like I do Feel this like I am in pain and I know I'm in pain so I don't want to say or or Like do the wrong thing while I'm like In this pain I do feel like the one Thing I will say is if you feel Intuitively like this person wants to Cause you pain or like in interacting With them they would try to inflict pain Whether physical emotional mental Psychic Um yeah uh maybe listen to that Avoidance tendency I'm not going to tell You what to do with your life but also You know you shouldn't condone or accept People that want to cause you harm and You owe them no obligation of your Presence but I don't think that's the Case for the vast majority of you I Think whatever is happening here and Think is a is a is a strong word here
Because both of you are definitely in Your heads about this situation and I Think that you both have been thinking a Lot about each other and I think for Your person especially they have Been in a lot of pain and and thinking About it a lot and sitting in it a lot And I don't know how you are connected To that and it may even be that that There is no pain directly associated With your relationship but maybe this Person is just in pain in general and Maybe they you know benefit from your Presence or your warmth or your support And you're not in a place to maybe be Open to that right now like maybe you Just don't have enough of like you don't Have the support to give maybe you're in A place where you're focused on yourself Um and maybe they're in pain also over The fact that they're already in pain And you're not able to show up for them Now that's not something that you should Feel guilty about or shame yourself for But Ultimately your person is in pain and They are in a place where they are in Kind of a a I wouldn't call it survival Mode but they're certainly quite cold Right now I think that they would be Susceptible to jumping jumping to Conclusions I think they would be Susceptible to being very harsh and Biting in their tone you know if you
Guys have had conflict and disagreement I I understand maybe your hesitance to Want to engage because I think that it Could be a little Bit uh painful to hear what this person Has to say especially if they if they Don't communicate with tact Um but I definitely think that there is Like this desire to not have hard Feelings here and I think in your case There's kind of this like overthinking Like oh I I want to engage with with my Person with pile three and and honestly Pile three maybe you came to this Reading asking about another person um But this this situation is coming Through and that happens sometimes you Know sometimes spirit is like Hey listen You know we got to talk about this and In this case this is where I see things Heading with these two connecting cards Based on your current energies it does Look like things are going to be slowing Down between the two of you um in the Near future now that could shift and Change based on your behavior and this Isn't like a permanent ending or a Permanent like seizing of things but I Do see like an important Uh an important Like I don't know what the right word is To use here an important like length of Time where you're both reflecting and Connecting and slowing down like I I
Guess the a better way to put this is That maybe you're not even like not Engaging with one another at all but at The very least things between the two of You are slowing down a bit and you're Taking time to reflect And tune in with yourselves and ask Yourself like okay like how am I feeling Like what's going on like I definitely Think uh one thing I really want to say To you pile three is that I feel like Your person can have a really intense Energy and I feel like if Um and that's not to like knock on your Person but if you are more energetically Sensitive and your person is quite Intense um it may be very important for You to take time and space to kind of Like protect protect your energy you Know be centered in yourself because Obviously hurt people can hurt people Whether they want to or not and I feel Like there's a part of you that may be Kind of avoiding your person or just Avoiding interacting right now cuz There's a part of you that knows like I I need to like regulate myself I need to Get myself in a place where I'm more Centered where I'm more in control Because it does seem like the state that You're in right now with this two of Swords is like if your person were upset By something that you said you know they Could counteract or upset in any way
Like if they wanted to like they they Could cause more harm than intended by Just like words and I think words is the Big key here is like you know words can Jar your psyche and and I think that um Your person right now is in a place Where they certainly need time to Process their intense emotional Experiences but I think one thing that You may be struggling with is the fact That even if you're not directly Engaging with them it's probably going To feel like they're still around you And it's probably going to feel like you Can't really get away from their energy Anyway and that's partially because they Are sending a lot of energy your way Consciously or not because they're Thinking about you and and things like That but also I think there is a part of You that feels powerless to their energy And I need to let you know pile three That you're not powerless to it and that In fact you can reject it and Return to Sender and that and a rejection of Feeling their energy is not an outright Rejection of them it's just you Asserting your rights to have your own Energetic sovereignty and not accept the Thoughts emotions and feelings of Someone else and I do feel called to say That if this is a situation where you Don't feel safe around this person Please do not put yourself in a position
Where you feel obligated to to To be receptive to them you know protect Yourself first that is incredibly Important you're not a bad person for Putting yourself first but for others Where this is just a sticky situation Kind of complex I do think that the both Of you need time to kind of reflect and I think a big key thing here is that you Know maybe both of you have gotten Really attached to certain ideas of how You think things need to be or how you Feel you need to show up and I think the Universe is really calling the both of You to really slow down and reconnect to What Matters and and really just take the Time to enjoy the small things again Because I do think that there is this Energy here where the both of you have Been very overwhelmed the both of you Have been going through a lot And neither of you seem to be Communicating like effectively or if That communicating at All and I think that that this is a very Valuable time for the both of you to Engage with what's created these Energies in the first place engage with What you're experiencing and gain more Clarity you know I really feel this big Urge from the universe to say like don't Shy away from the experience you're Having engage with it and and I feel
Like there's a part of you that may feel Like you have to engage directly with Your person in order to feel like you're Engaging with the energy but that's what This third eye portal is really all About like and I think that your person Is already accessing that engagement and That's also probably why you're picking Up on their energy a lot too is I feel Like you're trying to kind of avoid Everything related to this situation and And kind of the uncomfortable feelings That you may have around it which is Completely understandable it's a Vibe It's a Mood this [ __ ] loves to avoid right Here I'm sorry I shouldn't call myself a [ __ ] so that that is one thing I'm Trying to unlearn this gal right here She she she loves to avoid things uh and I'm learning to unlearn that as well and I you know and I think in that process Process of growth it can be very easy to Get overwhelmed or beat ourselves up Because we feel like our progress isn't Happen happening quickly enough or we Feel like we should know more we should Do more and I really feel like your Person is acting as a mirror for you Right now pile three Because spirit is really asking you to Look at what is making you so terrified To assess and acknowledge how you're Feeling and what you're experiencing and
Also I feel like for some of you you Need to ask yourself like do I give Enough time and space to my own feelings And emotions especially if you're giving Time and space to other people's Feelings and emotions are you making Room for yours and are you being fair to Yourself I think these are all very Important questions but based on the Energies that I'm seeing right now it Seems like things are going to be just Slowing down a little bit and the both Of you are going to be taking time to Process um and I think that's a very Necessary and very important thing um And just like I said if you feel like This person intentionally wants to cause You harm please don't put yourself in a Position to um allow that to happen uh You know please get help if you need it Uh I'm not a professional but uh I I do Care and I do uh want all of you to be Safe and be loved and be healthy and Happy and have good relationships so but You know for a lot of you that's not the Case I just have to cover my ground and You know that is important and and um But yeah for a lot of you too it could Just be like you know things are in kind Of a sticky situation right now you both Need time to just process and reconnect Reconnect to what's important and and Kind of see through the mental barriers That have keep been keeping both of you
From connecting more authentically and The mental barriers that have kept the Both of you from facing what you've been Avoiding I definitely think that this is A very Important part of connection and a very Important part of healing and um I feel Like some of you might feel like this Reading is negative and it's not at all Actually I feel like this is the most Important type of reading because it's Really laying bare like okay this is Where we're at this is okay like this is A normal part of life that we shouldn't Feel ashamed About what do we need to do to be there For ourselves and how can we be fair to Ourselves and others I think you know That's what's really important so let's Go ahead and get into the tarot now and See how these energies might Materialize This is going to be really interesting Um because I feel like I feel like kind Of one of the hard things is like as I'll just be like completely transparent Like I personally do have a bias towards You cuz like I'm reading for you and I Don't want to ever be like unfair to Your person but like there are certain Times like cut and dry where I'm just Like no like this is this is [ __ ] up Like I'm I'm not okay with this Happening to you my sweet baby child who
Is definitely an adult because only Adults are allowed to watch my videos Um but like in a case like this it's Like I can't just sit here and be like Oh yeah your person they just want to Cause you pain it's like no like there Could be so many potentials and Possibilities here um and I want to be Fair to your person because I feel like They um you know are really struggling Right now and whatever that pain is that They're going through I feel like you Know what that is whether it's connected To you or not you know just it's Important for you to remember that You're not responsible for like handling Their emotions Um it's not your job to handle their Emotions uh it's your job to handle Yours and trust that you know we all Have a responsibility to deal with what Is ours and we all have a responsibility To not take responsibility for what's Not Ours but that being said um let me turn This [ __ ] up right why am I calling Things a [ __ ] Like it's not a nice word that's the Thing like harsh brutal language is so Normalized and I think as we get more Sensitive it's like you realize like oh That's that's not really a nice thing to Call myself or oh like that's kind of a Harsh
Word but we don't know till we know do We so Spirit I'm going to pull I'm going To ask how these connecting energies Will materialize for you personally and With your person so we'll pull two cards So Spirit how will these connecting Energies materialize for pile three Individually oh okay and how will these Connecting energies Materialize um when it comes to their Connection with their Person wow so this is a unique card Um this is this card says sober uh this Is a unique card to this deck And wow okay Um So I feel so called to say like this Period of time where things are slowing Down is so essential and so important to Your healing like this is the equivalent Of this is the energetic equivalent of Like when you break a bone and you Literally need to rest when you are sick And you need to rest like you know our Society does not create space the way it Should for you know the more subtle Energies because a lot of people don't Even believe they exist which is a whole Other issue in of itself and it's okay To not believe in that but it is hard For the folks who know it's real and Feel that it's real and and I feel like In your case maybe one of the things You've been struggling with is like I
Shouldn't be this this like affected by This or I shouldn't be let go of the Shits because no matter how hard you are Trying to love yourself you cannot love Yourself when you're shoting yourself When you're [ __ ] yourself uh shoting S h o u l d i n g that's not I don't Even think that's a grammatically Correct word but I'm using it Um I remember one time someone commented And they were like really upset at me Because they watched my videos to learn English and I'm like what are you doing Watching my videos to learn English like I you want you want a tip watch someone Else like You're not going to get good grammar Lessons here um Anyway Uh with the four of Wands here I Definitely think that this is a valuable Time for you to recalibrate and come Into Union with yourself because I Definitely think that if you're the type Of person to be more sensitive and more Malleable to other people's energies and Intentions and desires it can be a lot Harder to get in touch with yourself and I will say from a person like from Personal experience like I need to to Like I need to go away from the world in Order to get in touch with myself and I Think that sometimes we can feel really Guilty for that because you know we want
To be engaged we want to be present but You know in order to be engaged and be Present we have to have those times away And those times of just you know being There for us and being there for our Rest and I think that in your case like This is going to materialize as you Coming back home to yourself in a very Important way and maybe that is too just Like you reclaiming your Home or maybe just reclaiming space in Your in in your body to feel safe There's just this very important energy Of the four of Wands like celebrating Yourself celebrating your existence Celebrating life and and if you notice There's there's nobody in this four of Wands which I think is very cool because I think it's symbolic of the fact that This is a union of of like your Own experience and and this is about you Like this card is for you so I really do Think that um your Job with how these energies are shifting Is to really connect with yourself and And rather than judge what comes up and What comes Through accept it from a neutral stance And and you know be with yourself in a Way that's like okay this is here I Accept that What are we going to do about it can we Do anything about it what what is the Move here how can I support myself do I
Need to ask for support do I need like This is really about you reconnecting With your needs and reconnecting with Your own intuition and reconnecting with Your own sense of purpose and I think That this is a very Important time of rest for you for you To really like get in touch with Yourself again and for some of you if This is like an intense relationship you Know I Think those times apart are all the more Important because intensity isn't Inherently bad but if someone has a [Music] More dominating like energy if they just Have a more powerful or more potent Energy you know it can be very easy to Take On theirs and and take it on as your own Too even and so like this pain for Example from your person could be like You know maybe they haven't done Anything like there hasn't been any like Pain that's happened between the two of You but you know maybe your person is Just in a lot of pain from their life From their experiences and you know it's It's too challenging it it's too much to Be around it all the time without Regulating yourself and maybe that's What you're what you're doing right now But this period of time is about you Coming home to yourself in a very
Significant way and I feel like this Really big urge to say that like you Know if if you're you're not in that Group where it's like you're you need to Protect yourself um if this if you feel That this person wants to cause you Direct harm Uh for everyone else like I don't feel Like this is a situation where it's like Oh yeah we just we Just stop kind of talking and things Slowly dissipate there's a lot of care Here and a lot of and like I I would say Love but I don't feel the urge to say That word just because you will know if That's there in your connection this is This is the challenge with General Readings is you know some of the people Coming here it's not going to be that That the connection has not reached that Level of depth um and so you will know Where things are at with your person but This is what I think is really beautiful This is what I love about like tarot Decks with unique cards in them uh cuz Actually in the last group like a unique Card in that deck came out um and I just Think it's so cool and I was just like Ah so the fact that we have the sober Card here you know maybe one of the Things that like your Person has been dealing with is some Sort of addiction that's like caused Them pain that's caused you pain um or
Maybe vice versa maybe you both like you Know addictions arise in so many Different forms like um they can they Can happen like I I think a lot of us Are not ready to admit like that or Social media addicts or like dude Addictions are everywhere like Everywhere Um and maybe even one addiction could be The addiction to each other and and Maybe sometimes like the healthiest Thing is just a little bit of time apart So you can come back together and Appreciate each other more but more than Anything what this is about is like what This is leading to for the both of you Is the time and space that you need to Really process and things see things More clearly I feel like your person is Is n't able to see clearly right now Because of the pain that they're in and What they're processing they're not Really open to a whole lot of warmth Right now like you literally see with This Queen of Swords like there's There's ice everywhere and in your case Which is really interesting uh it looks Like the ice is melting and it's almost Like the more space you take the less Influence this person's energy has over You and I feel so like called to say That like someone can unconsciously have Influence over your energy someone can Unconsciously like psychically attack
You or um send negativity your way and I Would say more often than not it is Unconscious it's literally just like People peopling and I think that like in Your case especially you know maybe Things that you said out of concern like For example if this is a situation where You were worried about your person you Were worried about their health or their Safety or something like that like they Were really upset like they may have Seen it as a betrayal or something like That to them And they may need time apart to see that Like see that you know that it wasn't Because you you didn't care it wasn't Because you were being mean it was CU You cared a lot and you and you want Them to be better I feel like no matter What what this sober card is really Speaking to which Spirit does want me to Read what the card says so I will do That if I uh can find the deck but I Don't know if it is Here um yes it is Okay but I also just think this sober Card is is like Processing the the mental and emotional Debris that may be getting in the way From the both of you connecting Authentically and in a way that is sober Like I feel like the both of you are are Meant to come back together refreshed And renewed in whatever way that is
Whether it's you know resolving a Conflict whether it's reconnecting after A bit of time whether it's you know just Taking you know couple even even if it's Just like two days to like just Decompress especially if this is like a More intense relationship where you're Like around one another or it's very Serious it's like the both of you just Kind of need reality to come back into Things so that you can see more clearly And not make decisions from a place that Is um out of alignment with your true Intentions and with your true heart so Let's see what this oh well guess what Never mind because I oh ha okay yay I Was like well I don't read Mandarin so That's like that's not going to have to That's going to yeah but yay okay there Is also English So okay the real question is is we have To figure out where it is it's probably In the back then if it's not with the Other major Arcana let's See special cards okay yeah sober bathed In sunshine the girl in pajamas hugs the Angel in Her Dream Dov represent the Awakening and vitality the girl is also The only figure in the deck with eyes Open yeah this is the Sleepwalker tarot And like the the the the gist is that Like everybody's eyes are closed um and
Upright sobriety relief acceptance Forgetfulness forgiveness reconciliation Vitality yeah so this is quite literally Like Awakening to to truth and Awakening To like you know why are we fighting Like this is so silly or like you know I Understand why you did that thing now Like you Know for example like if you wanted this Person to get help and they were and They felt that as a betrayal you know Maybe they need the time and that space To get help and then and they will be Like you know thank you thank you They'll see things accurately when They're not when they're well and when They're not sick you know when you're Sick and you're not doing well it's very Easy to believe what someone's Intentions are even if they are the Complete opposite you know so I think That this is really beautiful actually And and this is a very like this is the Opposite of a negative reading this is a Very positive reading like even if You're in that group that's like Especially if you're in that group where You're like I feel like this person Could like try to intentionally cause me Pain like good get away from them like You should not be making yourself Vulnerable to that type of person and You should wake up to the fact that you Deserve way better and I'm just going to
Be completely [ __ ] blunt with you if You well you are my friend like I start This video with high friends for a Reason but if you were sitting down with Me and you were telling me about a Person that like intentionally wanted to Cause harm to you I would be way less Calm than I am right now and I don't Sound very calm like I am not okay with People Accepting [ __ ] treatment and abusive Treatment no matter what kind and that Is not me to be like I of course like it Is a complex situation I understand that I've been in that position I understand That's why feel passionately about It but I'm just like saying like it is a Very positive thing to get away from Abusive people abusive situations and I'm not saying that that is the case Like I said that's a small group but Like I still have to talk to that group Even though they may not be part of the Greater cohort here so you know there Can be a lot of different things going On with different energies and that's What I love about this stuff and like You know the magic of reading energy and I mean I'm a medium but you know I do Three tarot cards and and the working With the cards and and yeah it's just All magic and you're magic and you Deserve to see your magic and see your Worth and recognize that like you
Know for some of you like sometimes the Healthiest thing is to take a little Time apart and work through things and Come back together when you've got a Clear head sometimes the best thing to Do is just take that space and and and Get well and like you know reconnect Like there is an importance to that and Sometimes a step away is a step towards The type of connection that you want so I definitely see that here and I think That that's really awesome and I would Say really Embrace and lean Into what your body what your mind what Your soul and what your heart is asking Of you if it's asking for more Nourishment if it's asking for more Space if it's asking for less noise Whatever it is like please honor it and Respect it because you need it you need That rest you need that care and you Know if we don't show it to ourselves It's a lot a lot harder for us to Believe that we're worthy of it and it's A lot harder for us to Recognize recognize it in the world and Receive it in the world when it comes to Us so definitely do that anyway let's See something that your person wants to Experience with You and if you are in that small tiny Group your person can experience uh you Shutting the door in their face but for Everyone else what is something that
Their person wants to experience with Them please Spirit okay yeah Two so we have death and the four of Cups okay yeah so they definitely want To experience a shift in this Relationship and they want to experience Like you know how sometimes you like Despite like your best efforts and Despite like the love and care that may Exist like you you want to connect with Someone more deeply but like no matter How hard you try and no matter how hard They try it just seems like you guys Can't find the right link or you can't Find the right way to do It I feel that here like I feel that Like I'm trying to reach you and I don't Know how and I want to and it and I Can't and it's frustrating and it's hard And it's like I don't know what the Solution is and I'm very frustrated and I really feel you know your person's Energy and this four of cups it's like You know the four of cups can also talk About like apathy and depression and you Know which I mean I kind of See depression as apathy I mean that's How I experienced depression it's just Like major apathy and gray like not even Sadness Um and and that is a painful ass thing Like and and usually that apathy comes From like feeling so much pain to the Point where you're just like your body
Can't handle it anymore and you're just Like all right like no I'm shutting down Like everything's gray now I I don't Have the capacity for for color for life For feeling and experience Like and my heart goes out like Even with a spiritual connection you Know like I literally like the past two Or three weeks been dealing with my like Mental health issues hardcore like not Issues like I like they're healing and Like but you know even with this great Amount of healing even with growing in Evolution like sometimes your mental Health is just not going to be the best And sometimes you have to go back and be Like hey sometimes it's not a spirit Thing sometimes it's just a brain thing And sometimes it's like hey um maybe we Need to go out and do something you know Have fun have a little variety I Wouldn't say that I'm in a place where Like things are are like like I would Need help it's I'm I don't know why I'm Talking to you guys so much I'm I'm I'm Just saying like it's okay to to not be Okay and that even and the reason why I'm talking about my experience is just Because I don't want you guys to sit Here and think like I have things Figured out Like I I don't like I don't even have Your entire reading figured out like I'm Like I'm like putting all the pieces
Together like we're all doing our best And you know I think one of the hardest Things about mental tell us is that like We can be so Harden ourselves and it can Be one of those things where we want to Connect so deeply but like it's so Painful and it's so hard even just face What's going on and like you know and And that's where it's just so important That we're compassionate with ourselves We're patient with ourselves and we're Respectful to ourselves and we don't Shame ourselves and and make what is Already a really hard experience any Worse and by doing that like that is an Act of self- Lov a radical Act of self- Lov and when we do that it becomes a lot Easier for us to give that to others and Be more patient and and recognize you Know they you know they may be Struggling with something they may be Going through something and you know I I Really feel like in your person's case Like they have this deep desire to shift The energy of your connection they don't Want it to be like this like with the Death card being here and the four of Cups like they want to end the the Status quo between the two of you Whatever it is right now where you're Either avoiding each other walking on Eggshells or whatever it may be it's Like your person I think also wants to Experience more light in their life like
They don't want to be in so much pain They don't want to be in the cold and You know I think one of the hard things About that is that sometimes we can just Create you know we can come to forget That like that it's possible to feel Good that it's possible to you know be Optimistic and to have hope like it is Very very easy to forget that when You're in a dark place and I think that Your person just really desires to Experience more lightness and more Um and be able to hold more space for You I feel like that's one thing that They maybe feel ashamed of is that like They're not able to hold space for you In the way that maybe you hold space for Them and I think with this death card Being Here I really feel like they want Transformation not only in them in Themselves but with you and they want to Find the solutions To get past whatever blockages have been There and you know I think what's really Beautiful with this death card is like They really just want to End these Like chaotic painful conflicting Emotions and they want to end the Uncertainty they want to end the Disempowerment and they want to End their own feeling of like a lack of Control
Around the behavior that they're ashamed Of I definitely think that there are Things that they would never Do if they were in their right mind that They have done uh when they've been in a Really bad place and they don't want to Be that way they they don't want to even Have the fear of giving into a lower Impulse they definitely for sure want Things to change here they want to Experience a profound shift here And I think for a small few of you Especially those of you where you're Like I don't think that this is like Conducive for our growth I do think it Could be that like maybe mutually the Both of you want like to go your own Separate ways and like end things on Good terms but I think for the vast Majority of you it's like I just Especially with these cards like I just Want to shift you know where things are At I I want to heal our relationship or I want to heal ourselves so that we can Connect more deeply like I want to Transform grow and change and and Whatever unhealthy and unhelpful Dynamics have existed between the two of Us which I think is really beautiful and You Know honestly like readings like this Are so meaningful and so special because You know this is The Human Experience
Baby this is the mess of connection and Relating and like being a human in a Body and like you know balancing Unity Consciousness with separation Consciousness and like balancing your Own light with all the darkness in the World like man being a human is and we All just need to be more patient with Ourselves and kind with ourselves and Thank you for being kind to yourself I Know that you are and if you're Not I kindly ask that you do if you Can't do it for yourself do it for me And do it for me until you can do it for Yourself okay now I want to see how you Can create well I'm going to have to ask This for both you and your person so Because there there's been an emphasis On um closeness and Intimacy uh with yourself so uh you guys Are going to get a double question again And I'm going to ask how you can get More closeness and intim intimacy with Yourself and with your person so Spirit How can pile three um create more Closeness and intimacy with Themselves yeah we have the nine of Swords okay so maybe maybe that Depression talk oh that makes me want to Cry like I I hate to like it breaks my Heart to know you guys struggle and Suffer and like that's why I do what I Do like I love you guys so much and I Don't have to see your face or know what
You look like to know that you're a Person with a heart and a soul and Dreams and you deserve to feel good and You deserve to have like a good life and You don't deserve to be stuck in your Darkness and I know how hard that is and I know how much it [ __ ] sucks and I Just want you to know that you don't Have to stay there and that in order to Get out you have to you have to face it And you have to be honest with yourself About where you're at and this nine of Swords is really important because this Problem may be beyond what you can solve On your own and it may be time to ask For help and there's no shame in that I'm going back to Therapy I said I like I and it's not Because like I'm like in a bad place I'm Like actually things are really good I Would like them to be better and I would Like to make sure that I don't fall back Into a really bad State you know what I Mean like I found that like I need I need it for Like the more practical stuff and just Like encouragement that that like yeah I'm not the worst person in the world For not you know finishing my laundry Like and I think that's important Like and I feel like that's the thing Too is like we don't need to wait to ask For help when things are really bad like We can just ask for help if we know that
We could benefit from it like And I also think too you know it's so Easy to convince ourselves like to we're So good at like adapting to our Circumstances that we can for like we Can not even realize like how much our Psyche is taking a toll on us and I Definitely think in your case you're Really being encouraged to deal with These intense thoughts because we Already saw this overthinking energy Here but if you are in a place where Like for example you know what it is Like to be really struggling with your Mental health or you know that you could End up there or you are there like it is Time for you to to to regroup and say Okay hey like I need to be here for Myself and I need to face the fact that Like I'm not doing okay right now and And that's not something to be ashamed Of and in fact like I can't get better If I don't acknowledge where I'm at and I think that is such an important part Of the process And I also think in your case as well You know you also maybe need to pay Attention energetically like what is Yours and what isn't because there may Be times where you get overwhelmed and And almost pick up on the energy of Someone else too so it's very important For you to really get in touch with Yourself in a way where you're able to
Separate your thoughts from the rest of You and that may Take outside help whether that is Through videos oh you know what a great Way to get into your body I found I'm Probably the last one to find her but uh Her name is yoga with Adrien she's on YouTube and she does yoga videos um and I have found like I'm someone who really Struggles to connect with her body and Like be here I I struggle with being in My head so if you struggle with that i' Completely get you and I found that like You know I don't need like intense Exercise I I just need like to be Checking in with myself and and to to Move and in ways that feel good and she Has like a lot of really awesome like She's like a massive catalog of yoga Videos for like every single thing you Could imagine and they're free so if you Are looking for help somewhere maybe That is a place to go and I just even Love reading through her comment section Because it's so positive and loving and Warm and and by the way thank you guys For keeping my comment section so Positive and loving and warm like I Think it's so awesome that we can Cultivate these like great like these These loving spaces in such a decrepit Dark place in time and space uh aka the Internet but how you can connect with Yourself is
By Recognizing where you can recognizing in General what's going on within you Recognizing what's going on in your head And if you don't know what's going on or You know that it's it's out of your Wheelhouse in terms of handling saying Okay What do I need to do to get help and Just you know don't underestimate free Resources like the internet is abundant There are abundant resources out there You just have to try and you just have To be willing you know to be persistent Cuz the first thing may not work you Know the first five things may not work And it's easy to get discouraged and It's understandable you know like one of My hesitations with therapy is is always Because I like you know it's it's really Frustrating to like start going and Unload stuff and then be like I don't Gel with this person and then you know To go through the process again it's It's hard it's challenging it like it's Taking me a couple years to get back on The bandwagon but you know it's better Well it's not even late it's better to Do it than not do it at all you know What I mean And yeah I'm being very candid with you Guys especially considering we're not Even in the like I'm usually a lot more Candid in the extendeds but maybe you
Guys needed that candidness today um and Just know that you're not not alone and That like I resonate with a lot of like Like what you're experiencing and and I Just want you to know that like it's Okay like it's not a sign that you're a Failure it's not a sign that you're Doing anything wrong it's not a sign Like it's just a sign that you're human And it's just a sign that like you know Things need to change in order for you To feel better and and that's okay and We're not meant to feel amazing all the Time but you know chronic consistent Horrible feelings or the lack thereof Yeah that that needs some intervention So definitely what you can do to create More intimacy with yourself is not shy Away from what's going on within you Because that's what's going to help you Help Empower you to overcome what you Feel stops you and what you feel Disempowers you you know it it's and It's kind of that thing where like you Know how Shadows make everything look Scarier like at night like a a tree can Cast like a weird shadow that looks like Really scary but really it's just a tree And like you just need to see in the Light to be like oh that's what this is And and when you look at things in the Light they become way less scary because You realize it wasn't scary in the first Place it it it was just a thing within
You that was saying hey I'm here and I Need love and I'm not being acknowledged So I'm going to make a stink until you Start paying attention and it can take a While to pay attention sometimes but That's still a very beautiful thing Anyway that was quite the uh Quite the Uh speech for the nine of Swords okay Let's do uh your person then so Spirit How can pile three create more closeness And intimacy with their person when the Time is right to do so if the time is Right to do so we have the Three of Wands here which I think is really Interesting I think an interesting way To connect with your person one one is Intuitively psychically like when you Think of them or when you feel their Energy send them love send them healing Unless you don't want to of course but When you feel Like like you want to connect with them But you're not ready To connect with them say via like Communication like connecting with them Energetically and just being like and Just sending them love or being like hey I miss you and I care about you and you Know I hope that like you're you're Doing the healing you need to do like That that's big as well but I also think Ways to create more closeness and Intimacy with them is to talk about your
Dreams together talk about like your Childhood dreams talk about your hopes Your wishes your fantasies and like your Values and your goals and and what you Both want for the future I feel like That is a way that the both of you could Really Bond and I also think Too making plans that are like Mutually constructive that the both of You have to look forward to I feel like Um one thing that could be really Beneficial especially if if like you're In a serious relationship with this Person or um think you may be in the Future like I think a good thing to Create more intimacy between the two of You is to be checking in With you Know hey like what's something you want To do together like what's something you Want to experience in the future like What did you always want to do when you Were young like that you know maybe you Haven't considered or like that maybe You want to try now I feel like this is A lot about like envisioning the future And also Like being consistent about your Boundaries one important way to create Closeness with your person is to get Clear on what your boundaries are and do Not waver from them if you're social Batteries Drained you say hey I would love to talk
Right now but I need to take a nap or Right I just need day can we talk Tomorrow like solid consistent ways of Checking in and not leaving room For speculation or assumptions I think Is a very helpful way for you to connect With your person and so you know if you Say hey like I just need some space like They might ruminate and go into like a Whole bunch of reasons why but if you're Saying like hey like I'm really over Overwhelmed right now and I just need Like the night to relax and decompress Like can we revisit this tomorrow I'll I'll reach out at this time like I feel Like your person could really just Benefit From Clear communication and if that's Something that you're uncomfortable with I think that's where you need to get in Touch with that because you know it's Really easy for like people who are used To people pleasing to have a hard time Like being honest about their needs and Like open with communication and that Can lead to a lot of pain and a lot of Hurt and people pleasing doesn't serve Anyone especially not you or the people You're pleasing so I think the biggest Thing is is like be honest about what You're able to give and not and like you Know if you need more time like maybe You need more than a night to relax and Decompress then say that and and and if
You don't know when that is say hey I am Like be so clear about where your at and If they want to speculate after that That is their right that is their Freedom too but at the very least you Can lay your head on your pillow at Night and be like I was clear I was firm And you know boundaries are not put in Place because you want to keep someone Away boundaries are put in place because You want to keep the connection healthy And you want to connect with them and I Think maybe communicating that could be Like a helpful thing and be like listen These boundaries are not here because I Don't want you to be in my life these Boundaries are are here because I do Want you to be in my life and in order To be in my life like we need to have a Healthy connection and so I definitely Think that a great way to do that is to Be really clear and firm on what your Boundaries are and I think that in this Process that you're doing with uh where You're kind of going within and Reawakening to what's important to you Um I think that that's going to be a Really powerful opportunity for you to Get clear on those boundaries and be and And really reflect on your relationship With your person and and ask yourself Like okay you know where are there you Know times what time where do I maybe Kind of
Allow myself like where do I betray Myself because I want to please them you Know and and and it may not even be that Like they're demanding that you do the Thing that they're asking of you it may Just be instinctual for you to do the Thing the other person wants and so you May have never stopped to ask yourself Wait a second Like do I even want to do things that Way do I even want to communicate at This frequency or do things this way Like I I really think it's important for You to reconnect with the reality that Like like you cannot have a genuine Rel Relationship with someone if like you Are not advocating for your needs it is One-sided and you will always lose in That situation and you don't deserve That so with that being said we are Going to go ahead and get into your Charms and these charms are going to Serve as signs for this connection signs That this is was your reading which if It resonated it's your reading and if You're here this late into the video It's your reading which by the way thank You Uh and then also it's going to serve as Guidance so headphone warning my people With headphones this might be a little Bit loud so you may want to turn it down But I'm going to close my eyes and then Pull some charms so Spirit what
Signs Synchronicities and guidance is Relevant pile Three Okay Yeehaw all Right first thing that jumps out to me Is my hair in the thing okay the next Thing that jumps out to me is not my Circus not my monkeys and would you look At that we got a little monkey right There so not only do you need to be is It well I don't say I won't say you need You don't have to do something cuz need And should go really close together but I I do think that that for your mental Health sake you do need to find a way to Be there for yourself when it is very Stressful to know that like you are Unable to be there for someone else when Choosing yourself I understand that it's A hard thing to do it it is but it's so Important and the more you do that the The less guilty you will feel about Taking that time for yourself because You'll realize how good it feels to just Be there and care for yourself and and Quiet your mind and how necessary it is Um like you cannot heal if you are Constantly being dragged into other People's dramas and I think that in this Case especially not my circus not my Monkeys spirit is really asking you and And guiding you to pay attention to what Is yours and what isn't and to ask
Yourself where maybe you take Responsibility for other people's Feelings and experiences that are not Yours to take you know I'll use me as an Example there are times where like I am Holding space for emotions that may not Even exist like I'll just be like Watching a TV show and and I'll think About like the actor the person and be Like oh like that might have been a Really uncomfortable scene to film like I I hope they're like okay or like that Might have been really hard and it's Like maybe they were super excited like Maybe they had no problems with it like I just kind of realized and and that That's just a silly example like it can Happen in in a myriad like millions of Different ways but where it's just like You kind of like Almost are Like empathizing with someone when in Fact they may not even have those Emotions or those experiences and like You may be holding space for emotions That don't exist or holding space out of Holding space for like emotions that Aren't yours out of fear that you are Somehow like a bad person if you don't And it is so important that you let go Of that because it's going to be so much Harder for you to have a sense of self If you're Not even sure what is yours so spirit is
Really saying like we we need to pay Attention to your own monkey mind and Pay attention to what is not your Monkeys and not your circus you need to Deal with your own inner circus um and Other people can deal with theirs and They have the free will to do that in Any way they choose and it's not our job And it's not up to us to tell them how To do that but we do have salty here so Yeah I do think there could be some Salty feelings from you or your person Or both vice versa and I do think that This time apart or this time of just Slowing things down and kind of Decompressing regrouping I think could Be a very important time for the both of You to like kind of just cool down and See things more clearly when you're not Uh Being when you're perception is not Being jaded By your emotions or and the intensity of Certain experiences I feel like spirit's Just really encouraging you to like move Through the emotions before you make a Decision like You know don't don't take action from a Place of reactivity take action from a Place of authenticity from from your Heart and you know we have this little Heart with the pearls on it and I I just See those as Pearls of Wisdom and I Think one of the very important things
Is like you know when we disengage from Our heart space and when we we first of All miss out on like so much in life but Also you know the heart what the heart Leads us to is not always what the ego Thinks it'll be you know we always Assume like there's these like silly Narratives that like oh yeah it just the Phrase and they live ha lived happily Ever after you know what I mean Like you know that's that is is a Creation that's a story like happiness Is not a constant state and the belief That it should be is something that Causes people pain and a lot of people I Think are so Afraid and and unable to deal with the Emotional pain that they have that they Do shut down and that's completely Understandable and I have so much Compassion for that but in your case Like spirit is really encouraging you to Not turn away from these experiences That that move your heart that grip your Heart that break your heart because it's These things that give you the strength And the wisdom necessary to engage with Life in powerful ways and with in in Authentic ways like you're here to live You're here to experience and Like Living from your heart is the most wise And empowered thing you can do and That's what spirit's really saying is
Like the more you learn how to honor Your heart and not let the minations of Your ego or your mind um get the best of You the more you will realize like you Have so much strength when it comes to How you choose to act in the world how You choose to be and sometimes it just Takes growth in maturity like I think I'm getting better at tempering like my Emotional experiences I say as I like Cried in this reading and also got like Really sassy but that's but I'm reading And that's a different scenario like I Think when when we're younger it's a lot Easier to just like be swept up in our Emotional experiences and like that's Normal and okay but you Know the sad thing is is that it can Deter you from wanting to have those Experiences entirely and what spirit is Saying is please don't shy away from That because you're you're gaining your Greatest wisdom here and also too like You know whatever this connection is Meant to be between you and your person Like the conflict you work through will Bring you closer together and it will Also give you wisdom and help you Understand not only yourself but each Other more and it will lead to more Connection and more understanding and More compassion and patience and who Doesn't love those things I love those Things I hope you do too but we also
Have never underestimate me and I I Definitely think that like this is one Spirit saying to not underestimate its Power and like the power that it it can Have to to heal to lead to guide to Bring you where you need to go but also I think that spirit is asking you not to Underestimate yourself and not to Underestimate your person like every Saint has a past and every sinner has a Future and we all have the ability to Grow and evolve like a lot of the things That we call our personality are just Perceived are just behaviors that we Have found make us feel safe and the More we face those fears the more we Realize there's so much more to us than We could ever imagine and we won't Figure that out until we you know have The courage to Try we also have the moon and I think That this is a really important card to Come out because the moon card talks all About Secrets Deceptions Illusions um but it's also Intuition it's also psychic ability it's It's the night time you know and the Moon has phases The Moon is not like the sun well the Well I guess the moon has phases because Of the sun right I don't know I I don't Know things about stuff but I do know That the Moon has phases CU I see it and we talk
About it it's a shared experience and I Think in this case like I think one Thing that spirit is saying is that There are phases of a relationship and And cycles of a relationship and like It's not going to be hunky dory all the Time and that's okay like and it is Essential and it is those times where Things are not hunky dory where you Really see like is this compatible in The long run or not like you know can we Grow from this or is This is this not compatible and also With the moon card with the moon card Being here it's a charm but it's a card Uh well it's technically a pen but I'm Calling it a charm uh Uh it's reminding you not to Let your assumptions and your fears get The best of you because you may not Because what you may think is the Absolute truth you may be so sure that Your person thinks that a certain thing Or believes a certain thing and that may Not be true at all you know when it's Dark it's hard to see clearly it's like And that's when most people are sleeping And that's okay I definitely think that This Moon card is here to remind you That Like it's important to recognize that we May not always have Clarity and we and We may be falling into Illusions and Deceptions especially within ourselves
That keep us disempowered that keep us Disconnected and that keep us fearful of Facing What's what we're avoiding and I think In this case spirit's really saying like Don't jump to conclusions don't make Assumptions and also flow with what is Like the move Moon doesn't stay full and The moon doesn't stay new it it is Constantly shifting and I think that That is a powerful reminder especially For where your connection is heading Because this phase that you're coming Into is very important you guys do need To slow down you guys do need to focus On yourselves and regroup and decompress But that is so that whatever is meant to Happen between the two of you whether It's you come together closer or Stronger whether it's you know you just Take a little bit of time To decompress so that you can reconnect Well no matter what it Is to recognize that this is not like a Death sentence to your connection it's Actually like going to Breathe new life Into it and breathe new life into Yourself Because things can't shift between the Two of you if you guys don't we also Have the dinosaur and I think that this Is really interesting Because I wonder if you and this person Go way back
Like and by way back I mean like Beyond This lifetime um you know past lives can Show up in so many different ways and we Can experience like a lot of lives with The same souls and just in different Roles um that rhymed and I feel like you And this person are working through a Lot of like past life energy together And like and whether it's directly Related to each other or whether it's You know just experiences in general I Feel like you and this person like on a Soul level have history and while that History doesn't have to dictate what the Future of this lifetime is between the Two of you I do think that spirit is Saying like if you feel sometimes like You are overly affected by this person Or that you are affected by this person In a way that you wouldn't be if it was Someone else I think that they uh Spirit's trying to like fill in those The those gaps of understanding by Saying like well you guys run a a lot Further back than uh maybe you Consciously recognize and and I think That your soul will or you might get Chills or you might just feel this like Instinctual knowing and like I feel like You'll feel confirmation in your body Somewhere and pay attention to where That is and how it happens because that May be an opportunity for you like when You're connecting with the universe more
Like when you're asking for confirmation That feeling maybe ask Spirit like you Know for confirmation like give me that Feeling again and then you know if you Don't get it there you go if you do There you go just a helpful way maybe to Connect with the universe but we also Have the teddy bear here and I see so Bears and dinosaurs could be significant As well as ducks and monkeys a lot of Animals here Uh maybe the zoo is significant but I I Always see this bear is like inner child Healing and I do think that there are Things that there are things that maybe You both are projecting onto each other That are just like stuff from your own Like respective childhoods in this Lifetime uh that that you're working Through and growing through and but also I think that this is this is a reminder That both of you need softness not only With each other but with yourselves and The more softness you give to yourselves The easier it will be for you to show up In the situation with softness because Like you can be soft and strong like you Can be both protected and Open truth can coexist and when you find That balance it can be very powerful so We also have the Apple here and I see This as a huge sign to not give into Temptation uh especially when it comes To the temptation to like feed a a like
A petty desire or feed a fear like the Temptation to not care for yourself when You feel like crap you know maybe maybe You do just need to give yourself a day And like go to bed but you know it's Very tempting to like not want to care For ourselves when we're not feeling Great and then that can easily spiral Into like it getting worse so pay Attention to Temptations like Temptations can be many things and I Feel like there there's a specific few That Society focuses on as Temptations But there are a lot of different Temptations and Um I feel like if you're really find Yourself like judging this person or Really getting angry at them I I feel Like you're really being encouraged to Remember like you know they're human too They're going through their experiences And you know what especially bothers you About them may ask yourself how that is Reflected in you why does that bother You so much is there a part of you that Is that resonates with that or is there A part of you that is particularly Bothered by that like I think there's a Lot of exploration there but we also Have the duck and this is just making me Think of our Queen Jinx Monsoon uh when she says water off a Duck's back um I feel like spirit is Really encouraging you to not let um the
Small stuff get to you and and not let Not let things permeate your being you Know when someone says something unkind To you water off a duck's back you know When you feel intuitively like someone's Mad that you're not investing more time And energy into them when you don't have Have it to and even if you did have the Time and energy to you still don't have To if you don't want to water off a Ducks back like I I also think too Um you Know ducks float I I feel like you're Also being encouraged to not uh avoid Your emotions and like you may need to Kind of dive more deeply into them and That may require you feeling them and Expressing them and that's okay um You're encouraged to do that as well Maybe also a bath could be a great self Opportunity for self-care if some of you Need permission to give yourself like a Good nice bath or shower just cleanse Yourself like that could be a good thing Just just for some care but also I think Cleansing in general like that's what This time apart or like this time of Slowing things down and regrouping is About is literally just cleansing Healing so you can come together Or whatever it may be that's up to the Two of You in a authentic aligned way we also Have the heart key so I definitely think
That spirit is saying like the key to Healing in this situation is coming from Your heart and coming from your heart Will open up new energies with each Other and open up new conversations new Ways of relating and new ways of Connecting and healing that didn't exist Before because you you weren't coming From that place or maybe if you were you Weren't always coming from that place You know what I mean but we also have The Sun and I feel like in this case Since it was like face down I think Spirit is really saying you know the Light is coming by facing the shadow Like that's what you know people we all I think can avoid Shadow work at times Because it's just like I just don't want To like look at that I don't want to Deal with that it's like the messy Closet you know like I I I don't want to Deal with it like just keep it hidden But it's like once you face it it feels So good and once you look at things you Realize like oh it wasn't as bad as I Thought and also with the sun and the Moon Leo Pisces energy could be Significant here um I I also forgot to Mention with the Queen of Swords there's Uh Aquarius Gemini Libra but like they Don't have to have those placements it's This about energy not astrology um but I Also think like with the sun here like The light is coming like the Clarity is
Coming but it's like you guys need that Space to kind of let the light in and And just kind of you know not be so Close to the situation you know cuz you Know the way that we look at something When we first experience it or when We're in the midst of it is a lot Different than how we look at it once We've gotten through it and once we can See it from a lighter Perspective we also have I can't read This I'm going to have to take This I don't care if my best sucks I'm Doing it anyway I love this okay yeah no This is your Vibe this is your Assignment like I don't care if my best Sucks I'm doing it anyway do just do Your best and with like the little bat Being here you know bats are all about Release and um bats are a big thing of Like facing your Fear I binged a bunch of the Batman's Like Batman movies all at Once and you know I loved like the Analogy especially in The Christian Bale ones to be honest Like I think my favorite ones are the Older ones cuz I just appre apprciate The fact that they didn't have like the CGI effects that they have now you know Like there's something just so Charming About like everything being practical And like yeah I don't know and Michael Keaton's a cool
Batman and Danny deito is an amazing Penguin and oh my God Michelle feifer Are you kidding me chef's kiss oh my God Okay anyway maybe Batman's significant Uh but you know I was talking about that Because there's a lot in the Christian Bale movies especially about like facing Fear and overcoming fear and I think That and quite literally becoming fear And but you don't need to be fear You Can Be Love and also I think that's the Most loving thing you can do is be like I don't care like the the loving choice Is to choose showing up for yourself Even if it's not as good as your ego Might like it to be or it's not as good As you think it should be like just do Your best and know that that's enough And that's okay you're not here to be Perfect you're you're here to be human And if you were here to be perfect you Wouldn't be Here we also have the little mermaid Charm with scales so I definitely think That this is once again an encouragement For you to dive more deeply and really Go into like the depths of your soul the Depths of your psyche you know take Those opportunities to really explore Yourself whether it's through more Traditional means or through um you know Non whatever speaks to you um and also I'm like thinking of like a siren's call Pay attention to what you feel called
Towards even if it's something that Seems like out of your interests or like Different from what you would normally Do there might be some interesting Healing or opportunities or growth there So yeah pay attention to that but we Also Have n so the letters n and G could be Significant as well as H so H and G Hinge could be a word G and H Um yeah H and G are the words but looks Like those are all the Charms and it looks like that is where I'm at wow okay pile three we had a time Together didn't we um I'm we're not done Uh I'm taking things over to the Extended now where we're going to do a Deep dive in your person's feelings um And like their energy towards you we're Going to see like what what they find Special about you what they would tell a Trusted confid on about you we're going To get channel messages and we're going To get guidance so I really hope that That'll be useful and beneficial so if You want to join me over there please do So but if you're leaving me here thank You guys so much for watching and for Existing you know it's really special When I feel like the urge to like open Up so authentically and and I I know It's just cuz I'm in the presence of Really amazing Souls that you
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It is that you're watching watching this Video and I hope you'll come back and See me again soon bye hi there pile 4 Welcome to your reading and thank you so Much for being here if you guys chose The blue squishy ball and the modern Witch tarot this is going to be your Reading on where is this connection Headed when it comes to you and your Person so um I am going to play with This if I'm not careful so I can't help It I just love playing with squishy Balls you know I'm I'm sure you can Understand Anyway we're going to start with the Energy check and we are going to look at Your energy and intentions your person's Energy and intentions and how that is Creating where the connection is headed You are on the left your person is on The right if you need to flipflop them Please do so but my intention is you are Here they are there let's get into it so Starting with your energy and intentions Towards this connection we have the Higher An and we have You I just like made me like think Immediately of like the the show like The Netflix show you which Like pretty good it's just like creepy Cuz you know the the character is Whit Whit and wiy well it's written really Well I can't talk
Today okay your Person energy and intentions we have the Knight of Pentacles they got two cards we have Air now I'm just hearing Jordan Sparks Tell me how to breae with no air and we Have Yield they got two Cards not cuz they're more special just Cuz they need to give more info and the Connecting energy between the two of you So this is where the connection is Headed we have trust overcoming doubts Insecurities patience and we have inner Child damn you two are solid like solid Individuals and also uh when it comes to Your intentions surrounding this Connection even if you haven't overtly Communicated about it and actually I Wonder if overt communication is one of The things that may be coming in Especially on your person's side but I Want to talk about you first you hello You um you sweet precious being You you're definitely like Allin when it Comes to this connection and this person Whether you're already in a formal Commitment with them or not I feel like That is what you genuinely want with Them and I feel like that's something That you are Unapologetic about or at The very least like very invested in in The sense that even if they're not ready Like that's okay because I'm I don't
Want anyone else it's almost like I want I will be committed to myself and myself Only Until someone worthy of being committed To is available and I feel like you see Your person as that and you see this Connection is that with the hofan being Here I feel like you're taking a very Grounded approach and a very practical One at that where you're really trying To go with the flow of this connection And go with the flow with this person um And I think one of the challenges of This is That your person maybe doesn't always Show up in the ways that you're hoping That they will or in the ways that Society like traditionally says they Should show up and I definitely think That may create some doubt and fear but I also think that um you may have Certain expectations or or have in the Past or struggle To not create expectations around how Fast you think the connection should be Developing or how fast or where you Think things should be going I Definitely think that you're very Serious about your person you're very Serious about your relationship with Them and I definitely think that like You're all in And I feel like there is a part of you That's kind of waiting on your person to
Catch up whether that is literally Or your person just needs more time or They want To we'll get to your person but I Definitely don't think you have the the Full picture in terms of like your Person's intentions and I think that's Partially because you have insecurities Around like your worthiness and also Around like whether this person is Actually interested in you or are they Just saying that or like you know are They as invested in this as you are or Are they just you know messing around But no they're not like I feel like You're in this precarious position Where you want things to move forward But for whatever reasons and and I think Those reasons will be different Depending on who you are and what your Situation is um you know the connection And the relationship it's Evolution Like the timing may not be like ideal to What you were hoping for the timing may Be slower than you were anticipating but Here's the thing like when I say you Guys are solid you guys are solid like You know what sign rules the hierophant Taurus tell me a Taurus that ain't solid Well okay that's that's unfair because Astrology is so much deeper than your Sun sign and I'm sure there's some Chaotic Taurus Suns out there that have Some interesting placements elsewhere
But um Taurus energy is very grounded it Is very stable it's an earth energy and Your person is also showing up in an Earth Energy they want this commitment as much As you you do I feel that like deeply in My soul and because they do they are Not cutting corners on how they get There with the Knight of Pentacles not Only do they want to be ready for that But they also want to be in a position Or the position that they feel they need To be in in order to be at the level of Commitment you want so like for example If you guys are already in a Relationship and you're like this is the One like I want to get Married your Person may feel the same way but they're Like oh but I want to be able to afford The right ring like obviously that's Like an that's not for everyone but like And also like if that resonates for you Um You didn't hear that from me and I You didn't hear anything and Sh uh but if you're not in that group For a lot of you like I feel like no Matter what where your connection is It's like there is an investment here Where both of you see and and funny I Say the word investment like you both Are invested in this and invested in Each other but there's this pragmatism To the both of you that I think maybe
Stops you guys from being more Spontaneous with each other or really Just allowing for the playful fun energy That does exists between the two of you I feel like there is a seriousness to The both of you especially your person Where they're like well I have to like In order to be able to to you know show Up for my person I need to cross off Like XYZ off my list and I need to do That right so that I don't have to go Back and fix it like I don't want to be Spending time with them and then get a Call that I did this wrong and but for Some of you it's like deeper than just Like smaller things it's like I need to Get like my you know like this person May be like trying to set up like solid Financial foundations they might be like You know like if I honestly like even if you're not in a Relationship with this person yet Like the way I the way I said yet just Like without even thinking about it T uh But you but like yeah you both are Committed to each Other but the awkward thing is depending On what your relationship status is is That some of you may not even be Together but there's just this like Unspoken like yes like it's you and I Think for your person there's a little Bit of okay number one the reason why
This is taking time is because your Person is taking the time that they need But Also the things that they're trying to Like they have plans that that I'm not Privy to which is Frustrating But they have things things they need to Get in order and they are part of a Greater plan that involves you and the Fact that we have air here which Literally talks about masculine energy Like not saying your person is a man Your person doesn't have to be a man but You know there is that phrase a man with A plan and I think at times you know Your person is so focused on what they Think they need to do and how they think These things need to unfold that Sometimes maybe they don't listen to Their more fun instincts they're more Playful instincts and kind of push away Opportunities for connection with you Now because they feel like in order to Be worthy of the connection like in Order to truly enjoy and appreciate it They have to be in a in a more secure Position and here's the thing this Person is like already in a secure Position but they don't perceive Themselves as being that way they feel Like they need to be on your level more Like they look at you and they may put You on a bit of a pedestal but it's also
Like but it's also because they like Adore you um that they want to be a Worthy investment that's the thing that Keeps coming in is is Investments which Like is funny because this is a Relationship this is not a finance Finance Reading trust me you will not be getting A finance reading on this channel I Don't even like worrying about my Own but I definitely think that the both Of you are are very sure about your Feelings and very sure that that this Connection this relationship is Something you want to explore but There's also awareness that there are Factors outside of your control that you Have to like go with the flow with and Especially on your person's part and I Think maybe one of the frustrating Things is that maybe your person isn't The most transparent about what they're Working on and why and what's going on But I don't think that comes from a Place of being deceptive I think that Just comes from a place of like they may Not even think to do that or they may Have this like oh well like it I I don't It's almost like they they're just like Afraid of of showing more of themselves In case they're judged or in Case their plans don't oh that's a big Thing in case their plans don't go According to plan um then they don't
Have to report that like oh there this Plan didn't work out it's going to take Me longer now to do this thing they Definitely create a lot of bear like They they create the barriers that they Then destroy um it's definitely a slower Process than just allowing and accepting But it's their process and I feel like You have come to accept that and I feel Like you are in a place where you're Like okay all I can do is control me and All I can do is you know be my authentic Self and focus on myself and I feel like You're just doing your best to like be Open to your person be engaged be Involved but also like not put too much Pressure on them not like you know try Like not be too demanding of their time And energy I feel like there's a part of You whether your person is set it Outright or not that intuitively Understands like they're working like They're working on stuff like they're Like what you both want like they're Working on it you may already be in the Position but they're still getting there Like and so you know the the hard thing For you is Is trusting and going with the Flow but I also think that like the both Of you are creating maybe some Unnecessary division between the two of You because you feel like you need to Show up in a certain way or because you
Are so committed to your Responsibilities and your priorities you Know the both of you are responsible and The interesting thing too is that like Both of you definitely have this like Air of uncertainty around the other like Oh what if they pull the rug out from Underneath me but the ironic thing is is That you both are really just genuinely Solid people and like I think that you You're not the type of people to you Know just commit to something very Willy-nilly like I and I defin think That your person still even though they Are very sure about you can never be too Sure and so it's like okay well I want To take my time I want to I want to make Sure like you know I'm not taking things Too fast I want to make sure that like You know things things are headed in a Pace that I'm comfortable in like I Definitely think that your person feels Responsible for like taking action in The connection between the two of you And they definitely like I think that They don't feel good enough yet For your Love and commitment even if they're Already even if you guys are already in A relationship like I feel like there's A part of them that really struggles With imposter syndrome and really Struggles with like their value and Their worth and so there is a part of
Them that's Like almost has a hard time enjoying Being close to you because because like There is this part of them that's like Oh I'm not good enough and like I don't Deserve this and I need to do more and It it like and it's like the the Wonderful feelings that they have when They spend time with you like those Motivate them to work harder and do more And and that and you might find that a Little frustrating because like you may Just like want to spend time with them And you're like I I don't care but the Thing is is it doesn't matter what you Say or do like it's it's their belief It's their stuff and I think you know That and so you're like okay well I'm Just going to surrender and do what I Can now here's what's really beautiful You guys are headed in a really positive Direction and I think that you're Actually headed in a Direction that's More spontaneous cuz I feel like your Person's intentions are to be more clear With you and also Realize there desires are going to get In the way of their um sensible Instincts let's talk about this inner Child card I actually want to read it Cuz like there's a lot that talks about The inner child and and we talk about The inner child but we don't often talk About what that is so your inner child
Yearns for love and attention your inner Child wants to have fun so maybe it's Time to stop taking things so seriously And listen to the message your inner Child has for you and that being said as Well I feel like the both of you do are Like do take this very seriously and Like that is so sweet and like special And like you should like you are very Serious about each other and very Serious about this and I feel like this Relationship and that's a really Beautiful thing but I also think that That maybe gets in the way of you guys Connecting sometimes because you're like Oh like you may just overthink things And you may just like get in your own Way so your under child says I live Inside your heart waiting patiently Through all your travels your days and Nights I have been with you look back Through the Mists of time in clouds of Emotion and you will see me I am here Waiting in finding me you will become Whole in knowing me you will know Yourself better for We Are One I am the Pure essence of you I am the essence of Your soul self I am you before the world Took hold and reshaped you let us link Arms and travel this path together a Whole world awaits us it is a universal Playground let us jump for joy Let Us Slip slide and rejoice at being muddied Let us conquer all in love and play and
I think this this is why I love so Where I think your connection is headed Is the timing of this I don't know but It's it's headed to a place where one You're deepening your trust in what you Know to be true about this connection And your trust in each other but Also this is this is my hunch we'll We'll look with at the tarot but I think That your Person's desires to Just have fun be silly be free feel Light feel connected are going To kind of boil over And they're just going to impulsively Like do something to just spend more Time with you and have fun and play and I think it'll be really powerful because It'll help you both realize like oh Maybe we've been taking this too Seriously or it'll just give you both Like the the care and love and attention You've been wanting and needing from Each other and I think this is very Important I think that and also too I Feel like because you guys take each Other and take this very seriously um It's really hard sometimes to just be Playful with each other and it may be Really hard to like you know be in the Present moment because you're like con Like self-conscious of yourselves and Like oh you know what I'm Saying and what's funny too is I in your
Group I found myself having like more Trouble like getting words out and I I Do think that your person does have Trouble with that like they have trouble You know speaking from the heart and Speaking from a place like speaking Their truth when it's more personal than Just Like you know comfortable surface level Topics and I don't think that's because They're not capable of it I think it's Because they have had people take Advantage of of the fact that that they Have opened their heart to people before And like talked about that and people Have taken advantage of it And yeah and you know what's even Interesting in this night like the Pentacles covering his heart and so I Feel like it's almost like your person Is is telling themselves that they need To build this financial cushion in order To be worthy of you but the reality is Is that they're building this financial Cushion because they need it in order to Feel safe enough to be vulnerable with You in the sense that like if this Imploded if I were rejected if if I Weren't good enough if this failed well At least I have some security at least I Have some stability I think there is a Part of them that is unwilling to admit That if things didn't go well with you There is a part of them that would be so
Devastated that they may not have the Same motivation to achieve the way they Once did which whoo Like there are times where like even I'm Surprised by like what's coming out of My mouth or I'm just like damn that's Intense And I definitely think like neither of You see into the depths of the other Because your fears Cloud what's going on and I really think That in both of your cases like Everything this connection is headed to A more loving gentle place where the Both of you feel like you can relax more And trust each other more and I also Think it's headed to a place of more Lightness and more joy and to a place of Like releasing inhibitions for a bit and And just enjoying each other's presence I definitely think that inner child work Like on your own can be really helpful But if you feel like Like if you feel your inner child when You're around them if you feel like you Could just be your most authentic silly Goofy self and you just feel like a kid Again like that's definitely a sign that This is your reading and like this is Meant for you I definitely think that There is a part of your person that is Reluctant to embrace that inner child And embrace that feeling because it is Such a good feeling and it's also one
That distracts them from their serious Mature goals and it's Like you can be seriously mature and Seriously immature all at once truths Can coexist and like the inner child is Not about like reverting to a childlike State it's it's about allowing the Essence of your child's self of like the Purest parts of you to you know leading Guide you as an adult and be a part of Your adult experience rather than just Faded memories of the past because the Child you is still there and has a lot Of wisdom for you I definitely think That both of you struggle to trust in This situation and to trust in the fact That things are working out and in each Other and I think that both of you Really try to like be very cool and like Play it cool and be calm and like and I And I think that that you know has its Benefits but I think one of the Drawbacks of it is that maybe you guys Haven't had the conversations that would Help build trust but maybe that's where That's headed I also think that your Person too they may have a hard time Opening up um unless they're in a space Where like they feel like they can trust It and so I definitely think that the More trust is built between each other And the more that like you just you guys Just continue to go with the flow take Things take things as as they go and
Like Go I cannot Talk just take things as they come go With the flow I definitely think you Have the harder challenge of of you know Being patient and trusting and just kind Of Like you Know giving your person the space that They need to work through what they Need while you also trust that you can Just do what's best for you and Everything will work out in the perfect Time and the perfect way but I Definitely think that like this Connection is headed to a place of like You guys realizing that you can trust Each other more than you thought you Could and also that like I think that if You haven't been playful with this Person in a really long time or you just Haven't like gotten to spend like Genuine fun silly time with them Recently I think that I think that that Is going to happen um that is where this Connection is headed something that is Going to you know give you both the Opportunity to just have fun and and Enjoy each other's presence in a way Where you're not stressed about okay What does this mean where is this headed What's happening what am I good enough Like and and just getting rid of all
That [ __ ] [ __ ] because that's What it is [ __ ] [ __ ] it's your Brain's [ __ ] get over it whether you Like it or not it is and just being in The moment and having fun with each Other because that's also what's going To make it a lot easier to have those Like conversations of like you know Like and when that that time is right Like you'll feel it and I definitely Think that maybe there's a part of you That intuitively like feels if your Person would be receptive or not to like Certain conversations and so you just Don't um but I definitely think like Your person's coming through in this Throat chakra energy um so I definitely Think that part of their intentions are To be more forthcoming with you uh but It's like it's almost like they just Really need time to acclimate it's like They're they're not the type of person To dive head first into a cold pool they Need to They need to get in their feet first and Slowly adapt And that's what they need but here's the Thing about the Knight of Pentacles of All the Knights he may be the Slowest but he gets to his destination No matter what Knight of Wands if he gets bored he might he might Leave Knight of Cups if he finds
Something he loves more he might go a Different Direction KN of Swords he might get there but he might Get there too quickly and without any Grace and then say something stupid that That is Insulting I'm doing all of the other Nights really dirty right now but the Knight of Pentacles the the positive of The Knight of Pentacles is That he is the most solid assured like When the Knight of Pentacles comes up Rest assured whatever he sets out to do He's going to do so if he wants that Connection with you and I'm only saying He not because your person is a he but Because the Knight is well I guess I Can't Assume I'm not going to get into that Just using he Okay He is the one you can count on he may he Might take longer to show up but when he Does show up you know you can trust him He's loyal he's trustworthy he's Faithful he's honest and I definitely think that your person Needs more time to realize that not only Do you have those same qualities and I Think they know that you do there's just Like the fear of what if I'm wrong like What if it's almost like it's like I Need a backup plan for my backup plan
And I I definitely think that your Person just Like they're not just going to dive into The pool they're going to make sure they Pack a bag and they're going to pack you Know an extra thing of sunscreen oh I Got to go to the store cuz I I'm didn't Get goggles and like they're going to be Prepared so rest assured when they do Show up they are going to be ready so Like if you are spiraling and like or When they when they show up ready for This next level of commitment whatever That is for you like the beautiful thing About you focusing on yourself is that You will be ready and so where is this Connection headed to a place where you Guys are surrendering a lot of Expectations and shoulds and getting Back to a place of trusting in the flow This connection and in the beautiful Energy that is shared between the two of You the lightness the fun the Playfulness and you know remembering What's really important here and Trusting in the greater plan and what is What is meant to unfold over time will But that doesn't mean that you shouldn't Enjoy and appreciate each other's Presence and and cherish like what you What you do have with each other and I Think the thing is too is like if you Are in a position where like you're not Um dating or anything like that like you
Guys are just friends but there's you Know more feelings there I definitely Think that the both of you need time to Like well maybe less so you I think You've worked out a lot to be honest I Think you're kind of just in okay just Go with the flow mode um you know how You feel you know what you want and You're there and your person is the same They're just not there yet like and it's Not because they don't feel the same It's not because they don't want it it's Because they do feel the same they do Want it cuz they wouldn't be doing all This if they didn't and by all this I Mean whatever standards and expectations They've given themselves and they need To do that they need to do that in order To feel worthy and Okay and like things Can progress and maybe that'll shift and Change um as this energy changes but That's where they're at right now and That's what their intentions are right Now they're like they're on the same Page as You they just need more time to catch up To that page it's like y'all are reading This same book y'all agree on the same Chapter but you're already there and You're just waiting for your person to Catch up see what I'm saying all right So let's go ahead and get into your Tarot now and we're going to start by Looking at how these connecting energies
Will materialize but while I'm Shuffling If you're if you are enjoying this and You would like to there is going to be An extended and I've really loved the Extended so far um we've been just doing Like a deep dive a Shameless Deep dive Into like your person's feelings and Like what they're thinking about you Right now what they're feeling about you Right now and by right now I mean Whenever you're watching this video I Don't care if you're watching this 10 Years in the future Um it's now for you not now for me or Anything like that um so yeah it's going To be really fun I'm extra unhinged over There and we're just yeah we're going to Look a lot at like how your person is Like feeling like what makes you special What makes you stand out how they would Describe you to a trusted Confidant like We're going to get lots of channeled Messages I'm using a mega deck to Clarify channeled messages like it's It's a good time if you've never been to The extended maybe think about it if not I'm just grateful you're here and if you Want to support me just not in that way Leaving me a little lik see like SK a Little subscribble or just letting the Ads play in the background while you do Something else all those things are free And they help me so much so thank you to Everyone who does anything and just
Thank you for being here but okay let's Go ahead and start by seeing Spirit how will these connecting Energies materialize For okay uh Pile four in their person all right well We got Justice can we clarify Justice Please because I think it is important We have a clarifier there um how might These connecting energies materialize For uh pile four in their person please Seven of Pentacles uh a rebalancing is Is what's happening So how these connecting energies will Materialize is if you're not like headed Towards commitment Soon the seeds are being planted for it To happen like with Justice here and the Seven of Pentacles how these energies Are materializing is you're just Continuing to build upon and invest cuz That word does not want to go away um Continuing to build upon and invest like What you've already created with each Other like the both of you see the V God Y'all are just like really like y'all Are Really earthing it up uh we got some Eartha kids over here uh Okay Anyway you guys are just continuing to Plant the seeds for commitment I mean Justice and the hofan are both like Commitment relationship cards um but
Justice to is also about like doing Right by the other it's about like Balancing things and giving having equal Give and take and I think the thing is Is like maybe one of the insecurities You've had is that maybe you've been Investing investing oh my God I that is Do not take a shot every time I use that Word you you will be investing in a Coffin in the Ground Anyway Um that distracted Me there's a lot about commitment here But there's also a lot here about like I Think this is also going to help the Both of you rebalance like your own Perceptions and judgments like I feel Like the both of you because like things Are just taking time and And we can get like very antsy as human People human People Uh you it's easy to just like get worked Up and be like Oh am I doing something Wrong is this failing are they not Interested oh what I was saying is is That you may you may be investing more In the connection right now than your Person is and you may feel like you may Feel like like you're carrying the Connection on your back a little bit but Like I promise you I promise you it's Not because that's one perception
Like and maybe sure you are investing More energy in the connection right now But that's literally because your person Is investing energy in what they need to Invest in in order to invest in you I Mean okay like I guess I guess this is Just a venture Capital cuz I can't stop saying money Terms Um but I think that this is the thing is Like the both of you really value one Another and the both of you you know Recognize that that Rome wasn't built in A day and I don't even think you guys Are meant to be Rome like I don't know I Don't know if this is a popular Unpopular just an opinion in my opinion I think ancient Greece is way more Interesting than ancient Rome I don't Know I don't know why ancient Rome gets All the love because I think ancient Greece is way more interesting um and You are free to disagree with me but it Sucks to be wrong doesn't it anyway Uh with these two cards here I Definitely think that this is Materializing in Balance that's needed To happen for quite a while and also Just continuing down the path that you Guys have already been headed on one Where you know you are committed to each Other like and Justice also brings legal Things into it so like this really could Be like for some of you like if you're
In a relationship with this person like I I think like a marriage conversation Could be Coming or something of that nature I Feel bad saying that because I'm like I Don't want to like ruin a surprise or Anything like that but your person is Crafty in the sense that like I don't Think that me telling you that is Ruining anything um because it may take Some time for that to happen but it's Just Like that's kind of the biggest thing Here is like the things that you feel Are meant to happen and the things that You feel like are are going to happen They may not happen the way you picture Them to or in the timing that you Picture them to but I feel like both of You are on the same page in terms of What you want with each other and that Is an equal balanced relationship and One where you're able to grow together And you know build something oh I really Hope these haven't been out of the frame If they have been I'm sorry build Something that's solid and substantial And not just based in platitudes or you Know they don't they don't want to have Something with you that's Like you Know they want something so solid and Stable that there is no worries of cold Feed or you know oh well we played it
Fast and loose and you know now things Have burn too intensely and there's Nothing there like this is this is the Slow Burn type of love and and that's Not a bad thing at all like I feel like This is really just this is Materializing in a way where you both Are just are like okay this is headed in That direction we may not be at the Altar yet or we may not be you know Calling ourselves we may not be saying We're in a relationship yet but we're Getting there and I see it it's becoming More clear and and I and I can tell that Like whether you guys talk about it Directly or you just know and you feel And it's that no That's what's coming and I think that it You know the funny thing is is that the Seven of Pentacles is all about patience And all about reflection and I think That both of You as you just continue to go with the Flow and and be in your hearts with each Other and be open and receptive and and Honor your authenticity like you really Can't go wrong here like the hardest Part is just being patient and not Trying to force things to happen on your Timeline and instead Trust trust the Timeline that's aligned with your Highest good and trust that you Know everything will come into place When they're truly balanced and meant to
And it's it's coming and it's happening And I I definitely think as well Like whether it's in the near future or Further in the future like your Connection is headed to Serious Commitment and um like very serious Commitment and I think you guys are Already seriously committed that's why You guys care so much that's why you're So invested and it's like and so when You find yourself being like you know Why do they choose work over me like why Are they so focused on like you know Their work and stuff like you know you Have to like play you have to have fun Like and you may just be like are They're they're not really that busy Like but it it's also like yes and no Like they are investing a lot of time And energy into their work and then also It's Like sometimes when they spend time with You they're just aware of how far behind They are and I completely disagree with That statement as it comes through my Mouth but that's from your person like They feel like they're dis they're Behind and and maybe they are in in Material terms but like money's energy Baby like you can always get more of it Um and I think that they're maybe just Taking on an Antiquated ideal of Like maybe they are maybe they aren't I Don't know it's not my place to judge
But what I do know is is that they have Very set ideas of how they think they Need to show up and I think that that They feel that you've already Accomplished certain things that they Have yet to and they feel they need to In order to be worthy of you whether That must be accomplished before they Are able to you know be where you both Want to be I don't know that might Change that might shift But the only way you will know is if you Trust and go with the flow So okay let's look at at something that Your person wants to experience with you So Spirit what does pile Four's person Want to Experience with pile of four Temperance Okay can you clarify Temperance Spirit okay I feel like they they what They really want to experience with you Is Just this is really interesting so this Isn't really talking about a specific Experience but Rather Like an Overall Dynamic that I think already Kind of exists but they want it to be so Consistent that there is no what they Want to experience with you is just like Evolution and Ascension with you they Want to experience growth with you they Want to experience life with you and
There there's a protective element of Their nature where they they want to be Your like protector like Temperance Features Archangel Michael in it and I Just feel like you know your person has That kind of like Archangel Michael Energy of just like they seem very Protective and you know while they're Very protective of themselves they're Also very protective of the people that They love and I think that's why they Are so hesitant to like let people in Sometimes um because when they do love They love hard and I think one thing They want to experience with you is Um feeling like they can they can Shelter you from the cold like they can They can be there for you in a way that Maybe you've been there for them that They haven't been able to return the Favor but I also think that they want to Experience ah I hate this earning you I You don't need that pile Force person You don't need to earn them that's Conditional love Like Man the money turn are like killing me They're really killing me you're you're Killing me B Force person um but it's Like they want to Experience true connection with you in a Way where their own insecurities don't Get in the way they want to truly like They want to be they want to feel like
The equal they know that they are to you But they have a hard time feeling that Way around you because they feel like One component is missing and that's the Financial component but I also think one Thing they want to experience with you Is just like consistent connection and They know that they're a huge reason as To why you guys haven't had consistent Connection but it's like I want that Consistent connection to to be Consistent and it can't be consistent if Like I have to throw myself into a Project or throw myself into this and It's like I want to experience True Union with you pile four and I Can't do that unless I am happy with Myself and happy with where I'm at like They're wow your person is like So sure of themselves and so like Committed to themselves they're like no Actually I'm just going to hijack aso's Whole reading and I'm just going to Speak through her like and I love that Like your person is that intense and That serious and that committed and I Really think one thing they want to Experience is the pride of knowing that They worked really hard to get where They are And they can truly call themselves an Equal not from a place of Merit rather Than from a perspective shift which I'm Just like I just like want to sit down
With your person and be like you are Making this unnecessarily hard for no Reason and like you could just have the Things that you want if you accepted Your circumstances and accepted that you Can have those things Before you reap the abundance that you Are already reaping like but they're not Going to listen and so it's fine but I'm Like the audacity to hijack my own Channel and like use it to talk to you In first person which is sweet like they Love you like they and they care about You but like also it's just very funny To me because it's like you are so sure Of your own position that you are just Making things 50 million times harder For yourself and it's like and as Someone that cares about you pile four And your person it's hard to watch like And it's like you're over here like Ready and they're like no I have to do All this and it's it's like you really Don't like I I I would love to be by Your side while you do those things now I guess I'm you pile four uh but they Just won't let that happen and that's Frustrating but I guess you know they Got to do what they got to do and I feel Like they want to Experience things in a way where they Have ample time and space to like miss You and also time and space to just like Let things evolve you know I think there
Is a part of them that that is healing And growing as even though they like a Lot of this reading has been very Focused on the material like I do think That that their healing is very Important and I feel like they want to Experience healing with you in a way Where you're not facilitating the Healing but rather they're showing up And being like they're showing up and Letting the change in their energy the Change in their experience speak for Itself and you know your person is very Powerful they may be very stubborn but They're also very powerful and they can Do a lot and so just know that like yes They May create 50 million barriers but They will break all 50 million of them And get there so you know if that's Their process that's their process you Just have to trust That everything's working out the way it Is meant to and you just have to do you In the meantime I definitely think Though they also want to ooh another Thing this is actually a lot more Literal they want to travel with you if They've never traveled with you that's Something they really desire to do and That's actually one big thing Financially that that I I think is an Insecurity is like they want to be able To travel with you and if you're like Well I don't have the finances to like
Travel a lot or I don't have the Finances to do that well then they want To have the finances to treat you to That and it's like they want to be in a Place where it's Like you get what I'm Saying even if you don't see yourself as Abundant or even if you feel like your Person is conflating your Abundance they really want to travel With you and they really want and they Don't want to just like they don't want To take Spirit like peace and love they Don't want to take Spirit they don't want to take Frontier Like they want they they want to treat You they want to travel and they want to Travel well and there's nothing wrong With Spirit or Frontier let me be Clear actually no there is something Like they're like yeah you get cheap Plane tickets but then they nickel and Dime you for everything I'm shocked they Don't just like the plane's going to be Going down and they're like oh well for $15 can have oxygen Otherwise choke and Die I'm just joking but uh yeah they They really want to travel with you and Travel with you in a way where they're Not Like cutting Corners like they they Really want to treat you and they also Like they just want to
Like blow your mind And show up and I actually I think That's partially too why they're not They're less forthcoming about like what Their plans are and what they feel they Need to do because they want to impress You they want to like they want to Surprise you they want to shock you and They want they just want to like blow Your mind and like this is why this is Why it was taking forever this is why I Was doing this I was doing this for you And it's like okay great but like I wish You would have been we could have like Hung out during that time we could have Had fun like I feel very passionate About your perspective cuz like I just Feel for you like I it's hard when you Want to like connect with someone and They're and they and you know they want To connect with you too it's different If like they don't want to connect right But you know they want to connect with You just as badly they they want your Love and attention just as badly as you Want theirs but they are unwilling to Allow that to happen because of what They think they need to happen and I'm Just like I'm just frustrated on your Behalf but also you know it's not my job To determine what is right or wrong and And they got they got to follow their Own process like we said so with that Being said that's a perfect segue we're
Asking how you can create more closeness And intimacy with them so Spirit how can Pile 4 create more intimacy and Closeness with their person Please we have the Three of Swords Definitely going to need a clarifier for That you clarify this three of swords You the Two of Wands okay this makes a Lot of sense So this is actually less About actively creating intimacy with Your person and more about clearing out The blocks that make it harder for you To connect with them when you are with Them when you do have the chance to Connect with them or when you are Together I definitely think one of the Things getting in the way of intimacy is The assumptions that you may have about What's going on and why and I definitely Think That your fears and your person's fears Get in the way of your ability to trust In in in spirit's plans and in your own Plans I definitely think that one way to Create intimacy and closeness is to Continue healing your heart in ways that Allow you to be open so that you know When maybe your person doesn't show up The way you were hoping to or when your Person is less available maybe than you Would like them to be or that you wish They were instead of like you know Jumping to conclusions and being like
Yep they they're not interested or like Yep they're they're bored or yep I Things are going to implode you know Taking a step back and being like whoa Whoa whoa whoa whoa none of that is true Why am I taking that as such and looking At what formed beliefs you have that Have made you believe those things to be True I definitely think as well though You know you can be really like Transparent with him and just be like Hey like you know it makes me sad that We don't get to connect as much as I Would like to I know you're busy I know You're working on a lot but I just want You to know that like you mean so much To me now and and I really just I I really love spending Time like I you know just being speaking From the heart and and speaking clearly About like when maybe if you would like More clarification on something or want Them to be more forthcoming say Something and be like hey I have this Thing like I can't help but like jump to These conclusions and I don't know what Their response will be but you can try Like be open and transparent about your Own wounds and like you know if you feel Like that space has been created or if You feel like talking about it would be Beneficial but I feel like this is more About you and about Like
Trusting in what you know to be true in Your heart and not allowing your mind And your assumptions and your ego to Like terrorize you and shutting down and Like assuming the worst or assuming Assuming ill intent or things like that Because that also dictates your behavior And dictates how open you are to them And that will affect your ability to be Close and intimate with them if you Don't trust them if you don't Trust yourself enough to Be open and vulnerable and still protect Yourself that's where you need to work On intimacy and closeness because you Can be both openhearted And strong you can be both vulnerable And safe you just have to be there for Yourself and recognize that their Responses are not a reflection of your Words Earth but a reflection of where They're at and I definitely think that More than anything the one of the best Ways to create closeness is to get rid Of the things That that make you feel like you can't Trust them or that make you doubt in Their ability to show up ability to be There for you like they're getting there They're working on it and it's kind of Paradoxical but it's like yeah they they Need to do what they need to do in order To be who they want to be for you and I Think really more than anything stop
Telling yourself scary stories that Aren't rooted in reality Because they are creating an unnecessary Divide and creating unnecessary stress And just not Helpful and I think that it's going to Be a lot harder to appreciate the time And energy that you do share with each Other if you're constantly in your head Or reading into every single interaction Or overthinking everything so definitely If you want to create more intimacy and Closeness with them continue working on Yourself and you're already doing that So like just keep doing that and you Know stay present with yourself Especially when you are interacting with Them and and pay attention to when you Feel scared or you feel uncomfortable or You feel vulnerable because those are The times when you need to be there for Yourself the most but with that being Said we're going to go ahead and get Into your charms now and we're going to Use the charms as a form of guidance and Also as confirmation for like signs that May be significant to this connection a Little bit of warning this is going to Be this might be kind of loud so Headphone users you may want to turn the Volume down a little bit um but I'm Going to close my eyes and then we're Going to pull some charms so Spirit what guidance and
Sign are Significant compile [Music] Fors connection oh you guys got lot Okay so where should we Start the teddy bear let's start with a Teddy bear yeah like this is definitely A connection where the both of you allow Your your ener like this this connection Is very healing for your inner child and I feel like there is a lot of sweetness And a lot of softness between the two of You and I think that like maybe the both Of you kind of Avoid talking about trickier subjects Sometimes because you want to keep that Like sweetness and closeness and I think There's a part of you that's like afraid Of certain answers and I think you have To ask yourself why you Know I definitely think as well that Like Bears could just be significant um I just heard Dwight Sho Bears beats Battar Galactica well actually I don't Think no Dwight doesn't say that Jim Says that when he's pretending to be Dwight So I'm talking about the office if you Didn't know um but I also think this is A a sign TR to bear bear with your Person bear with the process if your Heart's invested obviously like I Wouldn't be giving you this guidance if You weren't
Like this invest like obviously do what You want but it seems like you know what You want and you're committed to what You want so I I don't feel the need to Be like yeah you know you Can give yourself permission to do Whatever you need to do Like everything is fine we have the Bottled up emotions so yeah spirit is Definitely saying just because they Don't express them doesn't mean they're Not there and to also remember I highly Doubt you've been very forthcoming with Your emotions either so your person Likely doesn't know The the depth of your feelings either They have hunches they have in they have Like intuitive hits but they may not Know either and they let their doubts Get the best of them too I'm definitely Excited to look at the extended cuz I Want to look at we're going to look at What your person is are pressing and Holding back we're going to get Underneath that Uh that Uh that Earthly exterior and see what's Going on underneath we also have the Moon here I am definitely taking this For you guys as a sign that the both of You pick up very strongly on the other's Energy and you you don't have to say Things like you guys like are very in Tune with one another but the the the
Downside of this is that that can easily Get muddled if your fears get involved And then it can be it can be hard to Know what is an intuitive hit and what Is your fears so what I always like to Say is is anxiety screams intuition Whispers hopefully that's Helpful okay ah we have the world card And I'm going to cover it up cuz like I'm afraid YouTube's going to get mad at Me but they're literally so small There's no nipples like how can I get in Trouble but Like I don't know YouTube's annoying Like that with this world card I Definitely think that spirit is letting You know that that the way that things Are between the two of you now will not Be forever like this cycle will come to A close And you will be able to celebrate it Like your Dynamic is not going to be one Where your person is always like where You're always investing more and your Person is always removed it's like this Cycle will be completed and it Will things will shift and will change You just have to trust and follow Through with what your heart is telling You and and go with the flow I also Think with this world card though like Keep your eyes fixed on what you want Like keep your energy and your focus Fixed on what you want if you want more
Closeness and warmth between the two of You continue to be warm and Foster that Closeness when you can you know don't Allow your insecurities or your fears to Get the best of you and push them away Because that's just going to make things Harder on the both of you The both of you really care about the Other and and I think That you know a tiny push can feel like A shove when it's coming from you or Them like cuz you guys just care a lot And that's a beautiful thing I'm going To turn this over because I'm afraid I'll get in trouble but spirit's like Nah free the titties and I'm like I Agree but I got to pay rent we also have The dinosaur So I always take this as a sign that Like you guys go way back like you may Have like a past life connection but I Also think too that like you guys are Very so like Very like I can't stop using the word Solid Um and it's almost like Like your Essences are like fossilized In each other like there is No like you could never like even if Worst case scenario you guys never talk Again they could you guys never forget Each other like it's just like you guys Have Dee rooted history and I think that You guys have been you know committed to
Each other in lifetimes Beyond This and Like I feel like it's the most natural Thing in the world for you two to be Together and that's why it's so hard to Conceive of a world where it doesn't Happen and that's why it's so painful For that reality to not be here all the Way yet and I and that's why I I feel Really called to say like you just got To keep trusting you just got to keep Going with the flow We also have the the heart with paw Prints so both of you could love animals Or Um the way you interact with animals or They interact with animals could be Something that like you guys find really Attractive Um or just your pets in general could be Significant we have this bottle cap this Silver bottle cap And I actually decided that like this Like this silver would represent like The element of silver though a bottle Cap could be significant uh maybe maybe You guys need to uh loosen up a little Bit before you you talk about serious Stuff But I like to look at this bottle cap as Like silver and with silver it tarnishes Over time and I think that spirit is Saying like if you are not careful your Intentions will tarnish your energy will Tarnish and like you need to be paying
Attention to To where you're at and how you're Feeling and how you're doing because if You don't check in with yourself enough If you don't you know take the time to Like just reflect and be present with Yourself you know you might find Yourself jumping to conclusions or Falling back into cycles of fear and Distrust but I also think too like this Is this is a big thing as well like a Sign of the fact that the both of you While this relationship is like a mutual Effort you know the both of you have to Work on continuing like working on Yourselves and polishing yourselves and And doing the same with the relationship And and not giving yourself like the Excuse of like well I was mad or blah Blah blah blah and I don't think you Guys do that I don't know why I feel Like even the need to say that um but I Do just think that you may allow you Know your fears to get the best of you Sometimes and so spirit is really saying Like when you're not clear on what's Going on within you when you're not Clear of what's in your heart space and And where you're at that is when fear Has the opportunity to strike so make Sure you don't neglect your own Emotional needs or spiritual needs and Whatever just makes you feel connected With yourself connected with you know
The greater love and wisdom of the Universe hold on to That we have this red bell so red bells Could be significant Taco Bell could be Significant Um we have this little elephant and I Know this elephant is like a book Character I don't know who he is I I Just got him cuz I thought he was cute Um but elephants could be a significant Animal elephants to me are always a sign Of of blop blop stacles obstacles being Removed um yeah your person must have a Really hard time talking because Like pulling like doing this reading has Been like pulling teeth not in terms of Like being enjoyable but just in terms Of me being able to verbalize like What's happening And what's going on but we also have the Camper so I I would definitely see this As confirmation that your person wants To travel with you they may want to like Go on a road trip or something like that But they may also just want to maybe Literally camp with you or just Experience traveling be out nature with You um but I also just think too this is A sign that like where your connection Is at with them is in a transient phase Like it's not you guys are headed in the Right direction but you're not at the Destination yet in that's okay you just Have to be patient with the journey we
Also have this Yellow Stone which is a Piece of plastic in the shape of a stone But it immediately made me think of Citrine so citrine might be a stone you Want to get or check out it's also a Stone of abundance um but I also think Too this connection will trigger your Ego sometimes and it will like force you To look at yourself and like look at the Things that make you uncomfortable and The insecurities you have but those are The the things that turn into gems of Wisdom and so the pressure that you feel Sometimes from the insecurity and the Uncertainty of where things are headed And what's going on those are the Opportunities to be there for yourself And gain the wisdom from the stressful Aspects of That we also have this salty charm watch Your sodium intake Uh I'm not your doctor though so do Whatever you want spirit's like spirit's Like I'm turning this back down uh I Also think though that this is about too Like there may be times where you feel Salty about the fact that like and maybe Your person does too about like where Things are at or like your Ava Availability with each other and I feel Like spirit is saying like don't deny That like if you feel salty if you feel Frustrated like acknowledge that you Don't have to directly tell them that
Unless you want to but also like maybe Like by not acknowledging the times Where you're frustrated at like I wish We could connect more I wish I wish we Were further along like whatever that May be like acknowledge that cuz I feel Like that will help you release it Rather than like hold on to resentments I feel like spirit is really saying like It could get really dangerous if you Allow certain energies to go unaddressed And like not acknowledge them like it's Okay to be frustrated it's okay to be Upset that doesn't make you a bad person Like it is like I even I I don't know Your person and I'm frustrated with them That they're putting all these Unnecessary barriers up it's okay to be Salty literally I am like I'm salty on Your behalf so like just know that That's okay but also recognize that like Those feelings will pass and underneath That saltiness is a desire that's just Not been met yet and just because it Hasn't been met yet doesn't mean it Won't be ever in fact your person is Very actively trying to meet those Desires they're just they just need time To work on it so that they can be there Their career and and their work is very Important to them and they they need That time and space to focus on that but We have another paw print and I Definitely think that like the Paw
Prints are significant in terms of Like I feel like you guys there's a part Of you guys that like when you're with Each other you can just be a little bit More wild and I think that spirit is Kind of encouraging you guys to embrace Your wild sides embrace your Humanity Embrace your flaws embrace the fact that Like you know you're not going to be Perfect but that's okay and you don't Need to be perfect you just need to be You I also think though like like I said Pets could be really significant Um and maybe their pets love you or your Pets love them and maybe that's like Just a positive sign of you know the Good Vibes that exist pets Know we also have the fourleaf Clover so I always see that as luck so I Definitely think that that there is luck On your side luck is surrounding you um But Irish Ireland Irish heritage Irish Culture could be significant um for Leave clovers or anything like that Could be Significant Um y we also have the number two and I Think two is really beautiful it's Like two is an energy of you know Balance Harmony there's two of you and I I definitely think that your Person sees you as like yeah like this Is this is who I want to like Have like you guys have Synergy I guess
That's what I was trying to say gosh I'm Really struggling to like get the words Out I apologize thank you for being Patient with me um but yeah this this Two charm also could represent February The month of February could be Significant um the the second of any day Could be significant um in the month of February we have the signs of Aquarius And Pisces so those signs could be Significant they don't have to be I'm Burping please excuse that we have the Frog here and I always take frogs as as A sign of healing um but also there's Like that phrase like oh I have a frog In my throat I feel like your person Definitely has that um but frogs could Just be significant Kermit could be Significant maybe all send each other Kermit memes or something I don't Know uh but we also have not my circus Not my monkeys and I definitely think That spirit is encouraging you to stay Out of like You know even though like The the way that I was like frustrated Like ranting and out of frustration that Like your person is creating unnecessary Barriers for themselves um even though They are able to break through them it's Just like you could have just just gone Forward you didn't need to make the Barrier but okay like that's your Person's process like and I feel like
You may feel like you're responsible for Changing that or fixing that at times And it's not your job like it it's your Person's job and also I think that There's things that your person is is Dealing with in their life that they Don't want to involve you in because They're not things that they want to Have in their Life and have around you but they're Like things they need to address and Deal with I also just think there's Certain amounts of chaos that they want To protect you from in their own life And I don't and I feel like it has to do With things like in their family or like Things in their in their friend circle Like you know how like you you know like You're on the outs with a friend but you Don't want to Like abruptly ended and so you just kind Of like Gradually there's like things like that Like but I also think that that maybe Your person procrastinates a little bit Because they are afraid of Of the real thing the real deal but They'll get there they'll get there the Knight of Pentacles he shows up He might be a little bit behind but Typically he's right on time it's just That the other Knights are faster and Earth moves slowly but it always comes At the right time we also have the panda
Charm and so yeah bears are definitely Significant panda bears specifically Could be significant um who doesn't love Pandas I definitely think that your Person feels like very safe and very Snuggly and very warm with you and just Like I feel like there's just this Beautiful sweet energy between the two Of you that your person really Appreciates and like they just want to Keep that and And they don't want to lose that it's Like they don't want to have that until They know that they've put in all of the Work possible to make sure that they Can't lose it it's like at least if I do Everything in my power to be prepared And and like give it my all that like at Least if it doesn't work out I can I can Have that I feel like your person is Afraid that if they Rush things Prematurely they won't be ready or They'll mess up or something will fall Through and like that will be the reason Why you guys don't work out it's like It's like your person is Like trying to avoid a self-fulfilling Prophecy or trying to avoid their fear Of like things imploding with you and It's kind of like ironic because it's It's like they're worried about a bridge Collapsing that they haven't even built Yet because they're so meticulous about The materials and where they want to
Build it and blah blah blah blah you Know what I Mean man for someone who is making me Have a hard time talking I sure can talk Anyway so yeah we have the bee here so Don't worry be happy but also you know Bees work for the good of the hive and They also are they have Unity Consciousness so definitely focusing on Unity Consciousness could be a very Helpful and healing way to like Surrender and find more acceptance but You know bees are also a symbol of work And you know I think that your person is Working really hard and trust that just Because you're not seeing the results of That hard work doesn't mean they're not There like they even the Knight of Pentacles talks about that it talks About like like The just like the the seeds have already Been planted Like the the things that have been set In motion are going to happen you just Can't see them yet but they're coming And finally we have a littlea wait no Wait one more we have never Underestimate me this came out in three Different groups um but I feel like this Is Spirit really saying like don't Underestimate me don't underestimate the Power of of spirit but also don't Underestimate your person and don't Underestimate like what they know and
How they feel well we're going to look At how they feel in a second but we're Going to finish off by looking at so we Have the letter J so the letter J could Be Significant Soo pile Four quite the Reading I'm going to go ahead and head Over to the extended now but if you Leaving me here thank you guys so so so Much for watching and for letting me Read for you thank you so much for Letting my ads play in the background Because that's one of the simplest ways And easiest ways to support me and show Appreciation for my channel so thank you For doing that um if you would like to Support me in other ways like I said Earlier you can like subscribe comment Down below let me know how it resonates If you haven't already um you can check Out my merch you can check out my Candles be sure to use Cody so 10 for 10% off you can check out my social Media um you can check out other videos You can send me love anything you want But that's all I have for you guys so Thank you so much for watching and for Letting me read for you I really hope You enjoyed this reading and I hope it Brought you more clarity I hope you all Have a wonderful day or night whenever It is that you're watching this video And I hope you'll come back and see me
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